Grace Space: A Direct Sales Tale by Robin Merrill

Grace Space: A Direct Sales Tale by Robin Merrill is 165 pages of witty, quirky fun!  This quick read follows the life of Darcy, a 24 year old who lives at home with her parents as she struggles to pay off her student loans. When she hears she can make $40 an hour by selling Grace Space merchandise she jumps at the chance with hilarious results.

This quick read gives us a glimpse into the inner workings of an eccentric direct sales company - Grace Space.  Robin makes a clear distinction between the "faith" of grace space and the true gospel experienced at New Life Church.  She also introduces us to several charming, unconventional characters along the way.

I did find myself uncomfortable in places - surely the author realizes not all direct sales companies operate this way. 

Lastly, I wished the ending had not been quite so abrupt - a slower build up to the end - or more details would have been appreciated. I would love to read what happens to Luke and Darcy after this snippet of their lives.

Grace Space is a great read for a winter's day...or a rainy spring day....or any time you want something "fun and light" to read. It provided a pleasurable afternoon. 

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free in exchange for an honest review; I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising".

8 Things Those Facing Crisis Can't Tell You (But Wish They Could)

This list is from Fight Back With Joy by Margaret Feinberg.  Again, I'm sharing as I want to have the list handy. They also apply in  a variety of situations.

1.  Reach out to me.
Many are looky-loos - they slow down at the scene of an accident, read the details and share them, but never reach out to the victim. "...Your presence matters. When you reach out it means more to us than you'll ever know."

2. Notice me.
"The desire to try to connect with a person's loss is strong, but sometimes it can take the conversation to unhealthy places. This is not the time to process your pain. Simply listen with out trying to fix the situation or us. We just need you to be with us and for us. Notice us and pay attention to our needs. Some days we need to commiserate; other days we need you to distract us with fun stories. When you're unsure of our needs, ask, 'What do you need from me right now.'"

3. Do what you say you're going to do.

4. Ask God how to pray for me.
"Praying for us is good, but asking God how to pray is better......instead of praying for what you think we need, ask the Holy Spirit how to pray before you begin."

5. Don't give me any clichés.
"Skip the Bible clichés. This is not the time to remind us that god has a plan or God works all things for good or God is going to use this to fill-in-the-blank... Such words can bruise rather than bless, hurt rather than heal. If you share a Bible passage, make sure it's been meaningful to you in your own time of suffering. Pray about when and how to share the scripture. Always do so with gentleness and grace. "

6. Meet my real needs.
"Instead of filling a person's life with trinkets, ask what the person needs. The person may need help paying legal or medical bills, buying groceries, making a mortgage or rent payment, or caring for their children."

7. Remember my family.
"Let them know you're praying for them too. If you know the family well, spend one-on-one time with the kids and listen to them, even if they say or do something outrageous. They are also processing grief ad may need a safe place to express anger, sadness, and ask tough questions.

8. Stay with me.
"Ambulance chasers are a dime a dozen; re-builders are hard to find. Swarms of people appear on the scene of a crisis, but six months later they're nowhere to be found....If you have a meaningful friendship with someone who has experienced great loss, consider setting a reminder on your calendar to check back every few weeks. Keep letting them know that you love them, you're praying for them, and you're still with them."

Choosing Joy!
©2015 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

5 Things To Say When You Don't Know What To Say

This list is from Fight Back With Joy by Margaret Feinberg. I'm often asked, "What do you say to someone who....."

This list provides some options to consider in a variety of situations when you "just don't know what to say."  I'm sharing here as I want to keep the list handy.

1. Know that you are loved and prayed for today.
Make the one suffering the central concern. Give the gift of presence.

2. My heart aches with you and for you today.
This acknowledges your grief but keeps the  one who is hurting central, rather than your feelings.  "This makes us the focus of concern and compassion while acknowledging that you are with us and for us."

3. I have experienced loss, and I am so sorry for what you're going through.
If you have experienced similar grief, this opens the possibility of "comforting those with the comfort you've received," (2 Cor. 1:4). "We may not be in the mood to chitchat or may find great comfort in connecting with you. If we ask you to share, remember to keep the focus on our current loss and grief even as you share form you own. This can be a gift to those of us feeling alone, isolated, or unsure about what we're feeling or thinking."

4. If you have a specific prayer request, I'd be honored to pray for you. But in the meantime, know that I'm praying for you and asking God how to pray for you best.
"This well-meaning question can become tiring to those facing great loss or pain. Specific prayer requests can be hard to identify, can change every day, or may not be public information. Remember you don't need specific details to pray for us."

5. You are so loved! What specific thing can I do and/or provide that would help you right now? Let me know - and if you don't have any ideas, I have suggestions.
"Many people think they know what someone needs without asking the person. The result is often an abundance of one or two resources and a lack of other needs being met. The refrigerator fills with casseroles that soon go bad; the closets overflow with blankets while medical bills go unpaid and the lawn isn't mowed for months.

Always ask what someone needs. Come prepared with practical ideas....Offer a gift card to a gas station,  pharmacy or grocery store. Suggest prepaying for several hours of handyman or cleaning service. Offer and afternoon watching  a comedy to get out of the house and laugh. Provide an evening of childcare. Remember the needs of the spouse and kids too."

Fight Back With Joy. Celebrate More. Regret Less. Stare Down Your Greatest Fears.

As this is a personal review I didn't feel obligated to stay within the 200-300 word count. LOL

"What if joy is better than you imagined? The cherished virtue has been wrapped in clichés, stamped on coffee mugs, and sewn onto decorative pillows. Fight Back With Joy declares that joy is more than whimsy but a weapon we can use to fight life's greatest battles."

I saw FightBack With Joy by Margaret Feinberg recommended for one who is battling breast cancer. I ordered the book with the intent to give it to a friend.  It arrived this week. I randomly flipped the pages and read this quote, "Practicing defiant joy is the declaration that the darkness does not and will not win. When we fight back with joy, we embrace a reality that is more real than what we're enduring and we awake to the deepest reality of our identity as beloved, joyful children of God."  This quote resonated with me on several levels, in regards to several situations (and yes, I understand some of you think it is poor word choice. ::wink:: but for ME - it resonates).

God has persistently written the word "joy" on my heart for the past 10 years....He's used joy to transform me. I have learned much and have much more to learn. I couldn't put this book down and have read it cover to cover.  I loved the insights Margaret gained about joy as she battled cancer. Joy was her "word" for the year and then she received the diagnosis of breast cancer....and began to learn that joy is much deeper than she expected and can be a weapon. Excellent truths to explore.

Margaret mentions those who "leave" when you are in the middle of a battle and those who "stay."  Of those who "stay," some wreak havoc. She shared four categories of those who stayed and wreaked havoc: projectors (attempt to turn every crisis into their crisis), pretenders (looking for the latest scoop), predators (harvest others hardship for their gain) and pain inflictors (hurt with cruel or cold comments). Whew....may we always be ones who stay and bless and not fall into these  often well-intentioned categories.

Included in the book are lists of "5 Things to Say When You Don't Know What to Say,"  "8 Things Those Facing Crisis Can't Tell You,"6 Lessons I Learned from Crisis," and a letter from Leif, Margaret's husband about walking through these sorts of crisis' with a spouse.  There is also a "play list" to accompany each chapter. Very helpful info.

Margaret is real about her journey.  I learned more about chemo than I really wanted to know. I really am not SURE if this is a book to give to all who struggle with cancer. I know it's a great book for all to read who are facing various trials.  There were times I thought this would be a great gift for my friend and times I wanted to throw the book across the room as it made me ache and fear for my friend. In the end, I'm giving the book to her mom to read and decide what SHE thinks.

The only other criticism I had for this book is Margaret continues the recently trendy practice of quoting Scripture without providing a Scriptural reference.  Yes, this bugs me. I saw years ago the trend moved to quoting and  leaving a footnote to the reference. I've read several books recently by trendy authors who no longer even foot note. Sure I can look up references with a concordance, but I think the practice is a bad one as many won't look up references...I find this a slippery slope....but this book is good enough I'd still recommend it. LOL

I did NOT receive this book free from the publishers. ::wink::

Still Life - Christa Parrish

Still Life, by Christa Parrish is an EXCELLENT book.  A plane crash, photography, glimpses into a religious cult, clear distinctions between an angry and a just/loving God, hurting families ensnared in their choices....very good read. I laughed, I ranted, I cringed, I cried, I thought deeply. This book moved me.

 I want a sequel! I want to know what happens with Adah. I want to see Ethan mature in his faith and profession.

This is a story of loss, hope, renewal, restoration and the providence of God. It is also a story of community....families, friends, church body.

I will look for more books from this author.

Their Blurb: A tragic plane crash. One woman who lost her husband. Another who gave up her seat for him.

Adah spent her first twenty-five years with her family as part of a fringe religious sect. Her only contact with the outside world was through customers at their farm store. Then she met Julian, a photojournalist who'd come to document their lifestyle. They eloped mere days later and Adah was thrust into a completely new life as a wife, city-dweller, and an individual allowed to make her own decisions. But she has no idea who she is.

On her twenty-sixth birthday, Julian plans to fly home from an assignment to give her her first-ever birthday present. He's thrilled when Katherine Cramer gives up her seat so he can make the flight. But the plane crashes and everyone on board is killed, including Julian.

Adah is completely at a loss, with no friends and no marketable skills. When Julian's last photographs are published, her life erupts into chaos. She begins travelling-with Julian's camera for a companion-searching for answers to who she is and what she really wants.

Meanwhile, Katherine must live with the knowledge of why she gave up her seat-to extend her affair one more night. She recognizes her survival as a second chance to save her marriage. But is it too late?

When Adah's and Katherine's paths cross, they discover that there's still life ahead for both of them.

Author Bio: Christa Parrish is the author of five novels, including the 2009 ECPA Book of the Year Watch Over Me and the Christy Award-winning Stones for Bread. She lives in upstate New York with her husband, writer and pastor Chris Coppernoll. They have four children in their blended family.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher in exchange for an honest review; I am disclosing this in accordance with the FederalTrade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."

The Reason for God - Timothy Keller

The Reason for God: Believe in an Age of Skepticism, by Timothy Keller was PWOC Page Turner's January selection.   A few of us commented we may not have made it through this book without the deadline of the book club looming.

This is not a HARD read - but it's not an easy read either. In other words, I had to read some pages a couple of times - but when I slowed down and engaged it was engaging and enlightening. LOL

There were many things I LOVED about this book. I loved his switch from classifying people as believers and unbelievers. He points out all believe in something and so instead he calls us believers and skeptics. I loved a current voice answering the skeptics of today in the context of today's culture. I loved his call to focus on the foundational before getting mired in the minors. I liked the ecumenical voice in this book. I loved his description of the difference between religion and the gospel of grace. I loved how he showed the context of other cultures and illustrated the adaptability of the gospel. We don't have to convert, and shouldn't attempt to convert, a person to WESTERN CULTURE. Christianity should look different in each culture - and he contrasts this with other religions.  I was intrigued and impressed at his practice of having a friendly question/answer session after his sermons on Sunday - a chance to be able to answer honest questions and get honest answers.  His thoughts on "community" and the importance of the local church feed my thoughts on community as I see it in so many books I'm reading. There is a lot of good stuff to ponder in this book.

I liked the physical layout of the book. Introduction, Part 1 - Leap of Doubt - where he addresses the seven doubts he most often has heard from skeptics, followed by an Intermission, Part 2 - the Reasons for Faith - and an Epilogue.  Due to the layout, this book could easily be used as a source book - even if one did not read it from start to finish.

Seven doubts Keller deals with:

1. There can't be just one true religion
2. How could a good God allow suffering?
3. Christianity is a straitjacket
4. The church is responsible for so much injustice
5. How can a loving God send people to hell?
6. Science has disproved Christianity
7. You can't take the Bible literally

The Reasons For Faith

1. The clues of God
2. The knowledge of God
3. The problem of sin
4. Religion and the gospel
5. The (true) story of the cross
6. The reality of the resurrection
7. The dance of God

This is my first Timothy Keller book. I'd like to read more. It looks like he has taken several of his chapters and expanded them to whole books. I'd love to hear which you'd recommend next? Justice, works, marriage....which ones have you read?

Choosing Joy!
©2015 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

You Can Still Wear Cute Shoes: And Other Great Advice From an Unlikely Pastor's Wife

In, You Can Still Wear Cute Shoes: And Other Great Advice From An Unlikely Preacher's Wife, Lisa McKay gives us a humorous - yet serious - look at the expectations pastor's wives face (self-imposed and church imposed). Lisa tackles big subjects with wit, tact and transparency. She shows us how to avoid silly expectations pastor's wives often place on themselves, shares how we can be our husband's worst enemies or biggest supporters, discusses having BFFs in the church pews,  how to be ourselves and more. The end of each chapter includes comments from Lisa's blog readers -both pastor's wives and lay women.

I appreciated Lisa's wisdom on when to say yes and when to say no.  I found the sections on friendship thought provoking - specifically the role online friends can and can't play in our lives. I found myself considering the four phases of community from Lean on Me....still contemplating which relationships I'm Vulnerable but Not Committed in and where I'm committed but not vulnerable, and how many I'm truly both committed and vulnerable. It was beneficial to read another view on community. The book is sprinkled with insight on how to truly love our congregations. The back of the book contains a section written to Pastor's about supporting their wives, a list of resources and a chapter on how to blog.

I highly recommend this fun read to fellow pastor's wives. I've heard it may help a "lay women" understand the pastor's wife. I can't guarantee that. ::snort::

I did not receive a free copy of this book from anyone.

Choosing Joy!
©2015 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Lean On Me - Anne Marie Miller

Lean on Me: Finding Intentional, Vulnerable, and Consistent Community is Anne Marie Miller's memoir more than it is a how-to book on living in Christian Community. Anne states, " In writing Lean on Me, it's my desire to show you that whatever course you find yourself on, you are not alone, you need God, and you need others." I think the reader's guide and resources listed at the end of this book provide valuable input for growing authentic Christian Communities.

Anne writes honestly from the path she found herself on - divorce - and the healing that began as she reached out to form a "team" or a "community." It is interesting to me to read this from the vantage point of an introverted author.  I did find the book lagging at times - going in  circles -  and YET for someone who is walking a similar path this could be very helpful.

If you are looking for checklists and Biblical exposition Lean on Me  may not be the book for you. This book does highlight the value of a healthy Christian community.  My biggest take away is the four categories of relationships Anne shares: not vulnerable and not committed, vulnerable and not committed, committed but not vulnerable, and committed and vulnerable. Anne provides stories which illustrate authentic Christian community for each category. I found it helpful to think through my various relationships and groups and evaluate the level from which I'm interacting.
I found the title provided food for thought as well - to live in community will require me to be intentional, vulnerable and consistent. The title itself was worth the read for personal applications. ::grin::

Overall, this is a good book. I recommend it for those seeking to establish a community for themselves and for those who may be walking through divorce.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher in exchange for an honest review; I am disclosing this in accordance with the FederalTrade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."
Choosing Joy!
©2015 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

A Thing of Beauty - Exceeds Expectations

It's a wonder to behold what happens when love moves in . . .

I assumed Lisa Samson’s AThing of Beauty  would be the typical boy meets girls story. As such, I nearly passed up the opportunity to review the book.  Something in the description of Fiona Hume, a child star who left Hollywood after rehab to build a safe place for herself surrounded by beauty, piqued my interest. Fiona is gritty, broken, opinionated, quirky and determined. I loved cheering for her happiness. This is a story of love, forgiveness and redemption.

I was pleasantly surprised to find A Thing of Beauty  a page turner. I delighted in reading along as Fiona's relationships deepened, her wounds healed and she began to learn how to receive love.  "Could it be so simple as recognizing the beauty in the other's giving?"

I found this glimpse into a hoarder's mindset illuminating. "My heart years a little. Not for a relationship, which surprises me, but just for beauty, even small, winking shards of the stuff, for beauty all around."

This is my introduction to Lisa Samson; I will look for more of her work. This was a fun, easy and yet intriguing read. I'd love a sequel.  There are enough unresolved threads in this story to keep me pondering. Good read.  Pick up a copy when it releases 13 January 2015.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher in exchange for an honest review; I am disclosing this in accordance with the FederalTrade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."

Choosing Joy!
©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

The Daniel Cure - Mixed Reactions

I am tasked with writing a 200 - 300 word review. I'll post my full review here - I've posted a 500 word review on Amazon and Christian Books  - which I figure is good as some of it is quotes from the publisher. LOL  You may want to wait a few days and read the shorter version.....

In Chapter One of Susan Gregory and Richard Bloomer's, The Daniel Cure: The Daniel Fast Way to Vibrant Health,  the authors share: "The sad truth is that millions of people exist in a state of severe spiritual and emotional hunger. Some experts even describe it as a kind of malnutrition. ....What do hungry people do? They eat. People who are spiritually and emotionally malnourished often feed themselves with the temporary "nourishment" of self-defeating behaviors ..."pg 27 of the provided eBook  YES.

From the publisher's description: "The Daniel Fast is a partial fast, in which certain foods are restricted and others are consumed. This fast is similar to a 'purified' vegan diet; in addition to the exclusion of all animal products, no additives, preservatives, sweeteners, caffeine, alcohol, white flour, or processed foods are allowed. With the Daniel Fast people can eat as much Daniel-Fast-friendly food as they would like.

The Daniel Cure will help readers take the next step by focusing on the health benefits of the Daniel Fast. By following the advice in this book, readers will convert the Daniel Fast from a once-a-year spiritual discipline into a new way of life that can begin any time of the year. In a nation suffering an epidemic of obesity and its resulting ills, The Daniel Cure may be just what the Great Physician ordered.

The Daniel Cure includes a 21-Day Daniel Cure Devotional, four chapters detailing the lifestyle diseases of obesity, type 2 diabetes, cardiovascular disease, and inflammation, chapters of recipes and meal planning advice, a recipe index, complete nutritional guidance, and an appendix detailing 'The Science behind the Daniel Fast.'"

The Daniel Cure allows consumption of minimally processed animal products, and coffee/tea. It also has a couple of built in "cheat" meals. Richard's  results from his research studies were interesting and mirror the results from studies by Dr. Joel Fuhrman (Eat to Live). Overall, I believe this is a GREAT approach to gaining a healthy lifestyle. I was pleased to read something from the Christian community which went beyond "fast" to "lifestyle."  There is no doubt the Daniel Cure is both doable and highly successful. The Daniel Cure may be most beneficial to those consuming the Standard American Diet, or those who are suffering from one of the health issues of our times: obesity, cardiovascular disease, type 2 diabetes, inflammation, hypertension...For those currently eating a pure vegan or nutritarian diet, you may find the Christian world view, coupled with the spiritual aspects of fasting an encouragement. I did.

I am currently leading a study on the Biblical book of Daniel. God used a Daniel Fast to radically impact my life three years ago. Spiritually, He began to show me how to break the cycle of long-standing food addiction. Physically, my cholesterol levels drastically dropped,  my blood pressure dropped,  I lost 28 lbs in those six weeks, and my migraines disappeared. As the fast neared its end, I began to feel I was to continue this eating plan.  At an appointment with my doctor, where my labs were discussed, he commented I should, "Keep eating this way."  I have. He recommended the addition of an occasional meal of beef and fish once or twice a week - if I felt the need for meat. I haven't. My labs have been checked yearly. After three years of a plant-based diet all levels have been fine - with the exception of Vitamin D (and that was improved with a move to CA). Including my protein levels. I share this background as it impacts my reaction to the book.

I expected to love it. I had mixed reactions.

One, Susan Gregory, contrary to comments read on the internet and in book reviews, did NOT create the Daniel Fast.  It's been around much longer than she. She cannot be faulted for the hype currently surrounding the Daniel Fast, this is just an observation.

Two,  Daniel Chapter One does not describe a FAST. This was a lifestyle for the four Israelites mentioned.  They ate this way for a minimum of three years. Daniel 10 does mention a "fast" and the implication may be somewhere between Daniel 1  and Daniel 10 he began to eat a bit kosher meat and choice foods. My observation is Daniel did not ping pong between eating plans. What we call a "fast" was his eating plan.

Three, the word translated  vegetables  literally means "scattered or sown seeds." Daniel ate vegetables, fruits, beans, nuts, seeds, legumes, grains and bread made from those grains. He drank water. This is what we're told Daniel ate.  I understand why Susan recommends avoiding yeast.  However, comments such as herbs are allowable in cold water but not in hot water,  meal replacement shakes aren't beverages but juices are, cooking with dates or applesauce are substitutions and not allowed but eating applesauce and dates are fine .....It all hit me as unneeded legalism. I'm quite sure the Holy Spirit will help individuals sort this out in their personal fasts. And yet, I understand others ask for food lists etc.

Four - many of these "Daniel" books written for the Christian market simply don't eat what Daniel ate - they tell you this. That bothers me.

Five, Richard Bloomer really likes protein. Blanket statements are made that animal products are required for long term health. He did not touch on any of the other studies which have shown a varied plant based diet is sustainable and provides many health benefits -  TheChina Study and  any work by Dr. Fuhrman come to mind.  More proof should have been provided in  a book which focus' on the benefits of a plant based fast, and  then recommends adding animal products to the lifestyle.  This may have taken away the big "huh?" I had while reading this book.   In an appendix he does mention findings which show HDL is lowered on a strictly vegan diet which is why he feels the need to add animal products.

Six, I LOVE the focus on progress over perfection. This leads the authors to encourage "cheat meals." As one who struggles with food addictions, I've learned "cheat meals" often reawaken cravings which make staying on a healthy eating plan very hard. For some cheat meals will be a blessing, for some abstinence will be the bigger blessing.  Again, I believe the Holy Spirit will guide each to the right balance for themselves - if asked.

Overall, I highly recommend The Daniel Cure by Susan Gregory and Richard Bloomer, PhD.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.  I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Choosing Joy!
©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy

This is a great gift choice for the theologian or history buff in your life.

I've long been fascinated with World War 2 history and am familiar with Dietrich  Bonhoeffer. Having not finished the unabridged edition,  I jumped at the chance to review "Bonhoeffer Abridged: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy, " by Eric Metaxas. This edition is very readable - unlike many abridged books.

"Bonhoeffer is a story of moral courage in the face of .. monstrous..... (Bonhoeffer) became one of the first to speak out against Hitler. As a double-agent, he joined the plot to assassinate the Führer, and was hanged in Flossenberg concentration camp at age 39. Since his death, Bonhoeffer has grown to be one of the most fascinating, complex figures of the 20th century."

This story moved me. I  have long asked,  "Where was the German church when Hitler rose to power?"  Metaxas answers that question well  while illustrating the life of Bonhoeffer. I was forced to consider the role Allied Politicians had in NOT supporting those trying to over-throw Hitler. We wanted to believe, "There is no such thing as a good German." Dietrich Bonhoeffer disproved this notion.  I found it fascinating to read about this time period from the German point of view. This book has it all - theology, tough questions and answers, moral dilemmas, intrigue,  an amazing amount of new facts to digest and even a bit of unexpected romance.  I highly recommend it to history buffs, theologians, Christians who wrestle with the role of faith in social/political issues, high school students studying World War 2....you won't regret this read.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.  I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Choosing Joy! ©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Books, Pizza and Movies

Our women's ministry has a book club - PWOC Page Turners. I'm enjoying the group. I've been introduced to books I wouldn't have chosen for myself, we've visited a new café each month and the conversation is always encouraging.

Today we went to Caleb's Creamery. FANTASTIC Chai Latte.  This month we discussed The Prayer Box as well as all manner of topics burning on our minds. I really enjoyed the various facets of this book. Below is the publisher's description.

When Iola Anne Poole, an old-timer on Hatteras Island, passes away in her bed at ninety-one, the struggling young mother in her rental cottage, Tandi Jo Reese, finds herself charged with the task of cleaning out Iola's rambling Victorian house.

Running from a messy, dangerous past, Tandi never expects to find more than a temporary hiding place within Iola's walls, but everything changes with the discovery of eighty-one carefully decorated prayer boxes, one for each year, spanning from Iola's youth to her last days. Hidden in the boxes is the story of a lifetime, written on random bits of paper--the hopes and wishes, fears and thoughts of an unassuming but complex woman passing through the seasons of an extraordinary, unsung life filled with journeys of faith, observations on love, and one final lesson that could change everything for Tandi.

Michael had his follow up MRI today. He brought home Papa Murphy's for dinner.  We rounded out the evening with "How to Train A Dragon 2" and "Apple Dumpling Gang."

Choosing Joy!
©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

The White Horse King by Benjamin Merkle

I found the first few chapters of, The White Horse King: The Life of Alfred the Great, by Benjamin Merkle, to be rather dry. I continued on as I had a review to write, I'm glad I did. ::grin::

King Alfred united Anglo-Saxon England against a Viking invasion, led the English into battle against the Danish hordes, created a renaissance of literature and the arts, reformed the legal system, and set the stage for a revival of Christian worship. But that's not what made him great. Benjamin Merkle unravels the tale of how a great man came to power during one of the most difficult periods in English history, how he led his nation through them, and how he laid the groundwork for England's coming triumphs on the global stage.

I have taught about Vikings raids every four years - but I had never gotten beyond the information provided in our text books. I was sickened by descriptions of  Viking brutality and torture.  I'll probably not be able to watch "How to Train Your Dragon" again.  King Alfred shines in the midst of this setting. I was amazed as I read of his truly Christian response towards enemies.   I found inspiration in Benjamin's description  of Alfred's battle technique. The picture of warriors, lined up side by side, shields interlocked and moving forward stays with me.  When one would get wounded, another would step into his place. As long as all held their place the shieldwall was virtually impenetrable.

 Centuries before John Wycliffe,  Alfred was translating the Bible into the Anglo Saxon language.  Alfred laid the ground work for a united England.

"...he was a fierce warrior, a devout Christian ever thirsting for wisdom, deeply committed to justice, a lover of mercy, and  a king who gave himself for his people. He was practically a myth and a much-needed reality. He was the king of the White Horse- Alfred the Great."

I recommend this book if you are a lover of history, if you are looking for a "hero" for young boys, and/or  if you are a teacher.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookLook Bloggers book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Choosing Joy!
©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Summer Reads (June & July)

I have continued my commitment to carve time for reading out of the day.  I spent much of June's "free" time preparing for our PWOC Training Event and a week  at VBS - both events both drained AND energized me.....Summer is busy with more time with friends, family and trips - I knew I wouldn't be reading a lot of "meaningful" books this summer. In fact the vast majority of these could be classified as brain candy. Much needed brain candy.  

Hearts of Fire - Eight Women in the Underground Church and Their Stories of Costly Faith by the Voice of the Martyrs - This is a wonderful book. It's challenging and convicting. It tells simply the stories of eight women who have chosen not to deny Jesus even though persecuted for that faith. The stories range from the past to current. They cover eight different countries. Highly recommended. 

I discovered a new-to-me author. Jeanette Windle is a missionary kid who grew up in the jungles of Columbia. Her detailed research and writing has prompted government agencies to question whether she receives classified information.  At times her details bog me down but the characters and plot keep me reading past the first few chapters.  All these books were offered over the past few years as free or nearly free for kindles....yep - reading through my kindle these days! My only other quibble with Jeanette's writing is like Terri Blackstock or Joel Rosenberg - I get LOST in her writing......

Betrayed by Jeanette Windle - Engrossing mystery set in Guatemala. Vicki sets about to unravel her sister's murder and in the process discovers much about herself and her parents murders in Guatemala years earlier. As the back of the book states, "A politically relevant tale of international intrigue and God's redemptive beauty and hope."

Veiled Freedom and Freedom's Stand by Jeanette Windle In Veiled Freedom, Amy Mallory arrives in Kabul as an idealistic relief worker. She meets all sorts of expats as she seeks to learn the culture and to serve the women of Afghanistan. Freedom's Stand continues the story and focus' more on a convert to Christianity. I found both books to be intriguing.  Michael hasn't wanted to talk a lot about his time in Afghanistan but these books opened several great conversations. Definite bonus!

Realizing I would not be living fully present if I kept reading Jeanette Windle I took a break from her. 

Prayers from the Pews: The Power of Praying for Your Church by Teri Underwood. It's become popular in recent years to declare a love for Jesus but a dislike,or lack of need of the church. But Jesus calls the church His bride. We are instructed NOT to forsake gathering together. It is also popular in some circles  to critique Pastors and churches online etc. Teri shows us a better way. She writes SHORT chapters - great for devotional use - each encouraging us to pray for OUR church.  I found this easy to read and convicting. I am praying for my church much more than critiquing my church these days.

The Potluck Club, The Potluck Club - Trouble's Brewing and The Potluck Club Takes the Cake - by Linda Shepherd and Eva Everson I debated posting these. I'm almost embarrassed to admit I read not one but all three of this series. These books are set around a multi-generational group of women who meet once a month to share food and to pray. I suppose I was drawn in by the story of long-lived friendships, as well as the multi-generational make up of the group. Something I've been thinking about a lot lately. Totally chick lit.

And even more embarrassing than reading three books of TOTAL brain candy? I read the follow on Series as well. ::snort:: 

The Secrets in the Sauce, Taste of Fame, Bake Until Golden by Linda Shepherd and Eva Everson The women of the Potluck Club begin a catering company. I had to know if Evie ever gets Sheriff Vernon Vesey, which man Donna would choose, if Lisa LeAnn ever settles into life in Summit - and so I continued to read.

About this time I thought I should try something a bit more challenging and so I started (but haven't finished) Mission Drift, Transforming Prayer, Gospel Centered Life, Releasing Your Potential and Kingdom Journeys. I will try to finish at least one of these in August....but it still wasn't time to give up my summer reads. No matter how many "real" books I started. 

The Restaurant of Many Orders by Kenji Miyazawa This is more of a short story. Ryu and Kim gave Nolan and Arielle a list of Japanese books to read over the summer. I believe the idea is to understand Japanese culture better.  I thought I'd read along. I started with this short story. Two hunters are wandering the woods and find a wonderful restaurant which is sure to serve great meals. Um - well.

With summer nearing an end, I decided I could risk a few more all engrossing books and started a new Terri Blackstock series - the Moonlighter Series. 

Truth Stained Lies and Distortion by Terri Blackstock Cathy Cramer is a lawyer turned investigative blogger. She writes about what she sees in cases - not waiting for verdicts.  Life changes when her brother is set up for the murder of his wife. She sets out with Michael -police detective turned Private Investigator- to unearth the truth about the murder. In Distortion, Cathy's sister, Juliet, watches as her husband is murdered - and then discovers his secret life. I am looking forward to the release of book three in the Moonlighter Series. Distortion ended with a bit of a cliff hanger.

Congo Dawn  by Jeanette Windle - I ended the month sick in bed and decided to read Congo Dawn. The story began slow - because of many details - but WOW - when it takes off it rocks.  Ex- Marine Lieut Robin Duncan is hired by a private security firm.  She learns nothing is as it seems and the good guys are often hard to tell from the bad guys in the Democratic Republic of the Congo. Another winner from Windle!

There it is. Lots of reading this summer but not one meaningful title among the list. I've decided that's o.k. I obviously needed to relax and re-discover the joy of reading for fun  - these books did that for me. 

Choosing Joy!
©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

May's Reading List

I didn't read as many books in May as I did in March or April - but I enjoyed each one and plan to read a couple of them again.  I'm still trying to make time to relax AND make time to stretch my brain a bit. 

Rhinestone Jesus: Saying Yes to God When Sparkly, Safe Faith is No Longer Enough by Kristen Welch

I began reading Kristen's blog, We Are That Family, a few years ago. I enjoy her focus on marriage and her very practical faith.   "Rhinestone Jesus is the story of one woman's journey from comfortably living a safe, "good-girl" faith that didn't cost much, to realizing that God was daring her to say yes to a bolder, more authentic, more dangers way. This story of spiritual adventure throws the doors wide open for any woman who's ever though of herself as "just a mom." Kristen will inspire and empower you to say yes to God right where you are - and stand amazed at how your life will shine."

Kristen's honesty touched  my heart again and again.  This is not a "Praise Me, Praise Me" book....it's a book about what GOD can do when normal people surrender to Him - when they really mean their "yes."  It is a book about pursuing God by pursing the God-sized dream He has birthed in you.  It's about dreaming again - something we are starting to do more and more as our season of ministry in the Air Force nears its end.  Here were a few of my favorite quotes:

"Your dream should terrify you. If it doesn't, do you really need God to accomplish it?" page 125

"If you've never had a God-sized dream that scared you half to death, then you haven't really come to life. If you've never been overwhelmed by the impossibility of your plans, than your God is too small." Mark Batterson

"The pursuit of any God-sized dream is ultimately the pursuit of the One who placed it within you. It's like a homing beacon for your heart. Holley Gerth

Stress Test by Richard L. Mabry, M.D.
Another terrific read. I enjoy suspense and mystery. I enjoy medical thrillers. This one had a bit of all.

Dr. Matt Newman is kidnapped as he leaves the hospital early one a.m. NONE of the events which follow make sense to him, but eventually, all the details come clear.  Brain Candy.  I will continue to look for more from this author.

A Lineage of Grace by Francine Rivers

I've not read many of Francine's books. I've liked  what I've read - all at the recommendation of another; The Last Sin Eater and The Atonement child.  Mindee reminded me of this author - and I found this on my ipad - so I read it.

This was a really interesting read. I enjoyed how she made the life lessons of Tamar, Rahab, Ruth, Bathsheba and Mary come alive. I didn't agree 100% with all her observations....but I enjoyed the read. Recommended.

Scared: A Novel on the Edge of the World by Tom Davis

I am not familiar with Tom Davis or his non-profit ministry. If I had read some of his non-fiction work, I'm sure I would have been prepared for the emotional impact of this book. Wow! 

"Stuart is given a one last chance to redeem his career: A make-or-break assignment covering the AIDS crisis in a small African country. It is here that Suart meets Adanna, a young orphan fighting for survival in a community ravaged by tragedy and disease. But in the face of overwhelming odds, Adanna finds hope in a special dream, where she is visited by an illuminated man and given a precious gift." 

When Stuart and Adanna meet - both lives are changed.  Tom's writing is raw and rough and vivid. It makes the poverty and disease in Africa "visible." This is a book that will stay with me - and I don't think it's only because I spent early years in Liberia, West Africa.  I plan to do some research into Tom Davis and read some more of his works. 

Not a Fan:Becoming a Completely Committed Follower of Jesus by Kyle Idleman. 

This book is fantastic! I didn't learn a lot of new things - but that is only because Jesus has been speaking this message to me clearly for two years. In fact the gospels screamed at me as I began studying through the New Testament this year. 

Are you a fan of Jesus? Or are you His follower?  I wouldn't answer too quickly. This book is worth the read. You may find, when you honestly examine your heart, there are areas where you are a fan and not a follower.  Kyle leads us to Scripture where Jesus clearly defines the relationship He desires with each of us. 

"Not a Fan," calls you to consider the demands and rewards of being a true disciple. With frankness sprinkled with humor, Idleman invites you to live the way Jesus lived, love the way He loved, pray the way He prayed, and never give up living for the One who gave His all for you." 

"Not a Fan is a book that every Christian should read and regularly re-read. I started to read the manuscript and could not stop until I finished. This is a NOW message for the Church and my hope is that every believer who reads this will become an authentic follower of Christ." Christine Caine - Founder, The A21 Campaign and author of Undaunted

I can see myself reading this in a mentor group. It would make a great book discussion. It could be used in Sunday School or possibly a small group or summer study.  I'm not sure there is a study guide, but there are several editions. It is a great book to give to new believers. I think the topics could easily be expanded to a discipleship class with the right teacher (word chosen deliberately over facilitator).

Choosing Joy!
©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

April's Reading List

Love Works.Seven Timeless Principles for Effective Leaders by Joel Manby

Part autobiography, part corporate mentoring, and part Christian exhortation - this book works. Love Works is a framework for successful leadership - be that corporate, non-profit, ministry or volunteer. Joel outlines a proven path to success through creating a culture of love, which results in a passionate and motivated workforce. 

Love Works explores the seven principles of love found in I Corinthians 13, which are to be patient, kind, trusting, unselfish, truthful, forgiving and dedicated.  Joel Manby has refined and relied upon this leadership philosophy for more than twenty-five years. He is currently the President and CEO of Herschend Family Entertainment (HFE). HFE was featured in the hit show Undercover Boss and the response of the 18 million viewers to seeing love in action, led Joel to write Love Works. 

 "Agape love is the foundation for the bet and noblest relationships that humans are capable of. It is deliberate and unconditional love that is the result of choices and behaviors rather than feelings and emotions."  

"Think about love the verb, not love the emotion. Think agape....Think commitment and will, not feelings, and you will start to see how love works."

I recommend this book!

The Disciple: Following the True Mentor by James M. Houston

This book promised to explore how the world has gotten mentoring wrong. It claims that, "Through clear and compelling examinations of Scriptures, Dr. Houston exposes the mentoring approaches to avoid, and opens the way instead to an authentic and energizing Mentor/disciple relationship with God. This is to lead us to bring out the best - "the essential Christian identity" - in each person we meet. We will, "above all, learn how to humbly seek Christ, who alone can lead you to whole personhood."

I loved the introduction by Dallas Willard. This quote made me excited to read the rest of the book, "As apprentices of Christ we are not learning how to do some special religious activity, but how to live every moment of our lives from the reality of God's kingdom. I am learning how to live my actual life as Jesus would if He were me."

I found myself getting lost within the first chapter...I wanted this book on my ipad so I could tap the strange words and get instant definitions. I asked, Michael definitions, puzzling him and leading him to ask, "What ARE you reading?"  This book read like a seminary text book - and not a first year seminary text.  I knew where we were going - but I just couldn't figure out what he was saying quite a bit of the time.  I found it funny that the classics he quoted from made perfect sense to me. Therefore, the book has merit...but it was not a pleasant reading experience for me and I am still not 100% sure I really figured out the bottom line of the book.This is one I needed to do with my very smart, well-read, theologically trained friends.

Basically, the point I took away is that we are to be discipled for Christian living by Christ, the Word, and Worship. Our mentors should not be  the various models we see in history: the heroic myth, the stoic, or secular psychotherapeutic.  I stayed with it and began to comprehend the vocabulary by the end....but sentences like this, "As we have recognized, the logocentricity to the text is intrinsically contingent...." had me screaming "Say it PLAINLY!"  ::snort::

Why did I stick with this? Because God has been challenging me to stretch my mind. Chaplain C began meddling the day I began reading this - he mentioned when Jesus quoted Deut. and said we should love the Lord with our heart, soul, mind and strength (Mark 12:30), Jesus ADDED mind - which highlighted that concept to his listeners. I felt I needed to heed the challenge to not become lazy in loving Him with my mind....so I stuck with it and there were some good thoughts and quotes in the book. I'll ponder it a bit more. If you are very interested in mentoring, if you have a great vocabulary and good background in theology - this is a great read.

I'm reading brain candy next! 

This She'll Defend by Melissa Miles

 I stumbled across, This She'll Defend, and found the pull to read it irresistible.  It's set in Darmstadt, Germany on an Army Post. The Chapel, PWOC, towns I've heard of and the acronyms I know and love played heavily in this story. 

When Carmen's husband, Ed, is offered a job as a civilian engineer on an Army post in Darmstadt, they jump at this new family adventure.  Carmen has a life anyone would envy. She knows with certainty she would never do anything to jeopardize her family. And then....

I found the beginning of this book to be slow. However, I soon was pulled in to the plot. A familiar plot - with twists.  Before to long, there was no way I would quit reading until I finished the story. Amazing end to the story.

Personally, Carmen's feelings  both of arriving and leaving a foreign country resonated with me. For example,  "A chapter in her life was ending, and she felt a loss as if a friend was dying. It was hard to explain, but the emotions were tangible and the gnawing feeling that she would never recapture the happiness and magic of the life they had spent here was constantly in the background. She sometimes felt like living overseas had been a fairy tale. She could almost see the big adventure book slamming closed in her face."

If you've lived in Germany, I think you'll enjoy this read. If you've lived on a military base overseas and participated in the chapel community, I think you'll love this story. If you want a fun read with an interesting plot - give this a try.

I must say that I think one needs to be written about Misawa....with karaoke, onsens, Oriase Gorge and tsunamis....I think it would be great!  I can think of friends I would volunteer for this - but maybe they'll think of the idea themselves. ::wink::

Undaunted: Daring to do what God calls you to do by Christine Caine
Excellent book, recommended!  Christine shares a bit of her back story...and it is good. She shares a bit of how God led her and her husband to begin The A21 Campaign - an international ministry to end Sex Trafficking in the 21st century. They are involved in rescuing, legislating, safe homes and transitional homes. They were told their campaign would NEVER work - but they were undaunted. God is bigger than the bully of difficulty. "The giant in front of you is NEVER bigger than the God who lives within you."

Christine shares from her own life story how God rescued her from being unnamed, unwanted, and unqualified. Jesus rescued her, transformed her life and now she rescues others.  There are many quotes I could share. This is vintage Christine, "Your heart will take you much further than your gift ever will. Cultivate a heart after God."

Heart Failure by Richard L. Mabry, M.D. 
I love mysteries and suspense. Richard Mabry writes great medical thrillers - Christian suspense. In this volume,  Dr. Carrie Markham's medical practice is taking off, she's engaged to Adam Davidson, a para-legal - and life seems to be on a great course.

And then the attempts on their lives begin. Adam confesses he isn't who he has presented himself to be.  Which one of them is the target of the attacks? "Carrie is left with an impossible choice: abandon the fiance' she isn't sure she really knows, or accept his claim of innocence and help him fight back against this faceless menace?"

Heart Failure includes a discussion guide for those who want to use it in a group setting. I'm watching for more reads by Dr. Mabry.

A Different Kind of Wild: Is Your Faith Too Tame? by Debbie

Alsdorf
This book was suggested to me by Ellen, our current PWOC Spiritual Life Ministry Team Leader. It's a book she would have liked to work into our year of Bible studies.  Debbie Alsdorf is a Women's Ministry Director in Northern California and the founder of Design4Living Ministries.

Debbie encourages women to live up, instead of acting out. She challenges us to  break from from old expectations and and boring patterns and find the WILD (Women in Lifelong Development) way of life.  The twelve chapters in this book are divided into three parts: Developing: growing up spiritually, Daring: living by a different standard, and Determined: finding courage to follow a new path.  A twelve-week study guide is included. Debbie's heart for discipleship and spiritual formation shines through the pages of A Different Kind of Wild.

This would be a good book to read with a  new believer, to do as a summer study (possibly without the guide), as a book club selection or a 12-week Bible study. I would personally like to see more Scripture included, and a few varying topics...but this message is solid. A good starting spot on a woman's journey to spiritual transformation.

The Leadership Lessons of Jesus: A Timeless Model for Today's Leaders by Rob Briner and Ray Pritchard.
All leaders are not created equal. In The Leadership Lessons of Jesus, the authors take us to the feet of Jesus to learn from the best.  In fewer than four years, Jesus inspired his followers enough that they were willing to give their lives carrying out His vision.

The authors work through the Gospel of Mark highlighting Jesus' example of leadership. Each of the seventy short entries begin with a verse and moves on to explore and adapt individual techniques that made Jesus' leadership so powerful (you know - other than being GOD).

I learned from this book. I thought a couple of the readings took Scripture out of context and applied it in ways I doubt the author intended.... I find the same with many books.  I do think this is an easy read on leadership and contains valuable insights. I did enjoy meeting Jesus from a "new angle."

Dad is Fat by Jim Gaffigan
I have not heard of comedian Jim Gaffigan. I will be checking out youtube and netflix. ::grin::

Dad is Fat (a titled inspired by a child's artistry) is a hilarious look at Fatherhood from Jim's perspective. It reminds me a lot of Bill Cosby's, Fatherhood,  a book Michael and I enjoyed immensely a couple of decades ago.  No, I don't like his perspective on EVERYTHING....and he does use a word a couple of times....but honestly...this was a great read. I especially liked, "Are You Done Yet?" and "Six Kids, Catholic."

If you're looking for a fun read, are a new parent or want to re-live the glory days when you had a houseful of preschoolers.....this book is for you.

Rush Revere and the Brave Pilgrims by Rush Limbaugh
Michael suggested we read this  for school. I will admit I didn't give it much attention - and so when we began studying the Revolutionary War, I pulled it out. You know - Rush REVERE....this would have fit better a few weeks ago. Nevertheless, Alex and Stacia really enjoyed it. I was entertained.  AND they retained more info than they had from the text books we'd  read. Win/win. The book is written from a conservative standpoint but did not grind political axes. Solid history - entertaining history.  It is written for 10 - 13 year olds but both Stacia (8) and I (50) enjoyed it as well. 

Join Rush Revere, a history teacher, as he time travels back to key points in the history of the Puritan Pilgrims.  The kids like this one so much, we ordered Rush Revere and the First Patriots for next week. 

Rising to the Call of Leadership by Kay Arthur, David and BJ Lawson 
In these six-week studies you actually work through Scripture together during  40 minute class sessions. In other words - NO HOMEWORK - but -  you are not subjected to simply throwing out what you've heard in a sermon, or always thought about a passage. You are led through an inductive exploration of passages centered on a specific topic. I've seen them used in adult Sunday School classes, Youth groups, summer women's studies...and currently....we are using the one in our family circle.

THIS study centers on leadership. Every person  leads in a variety of spheres. Some are called to lead in the church.  What is the difference between being the "person up front" and being a godly leader?  In Rising to the Call of Leadership, key leadership principles are illustrated in the lives of  Eli, Samuel, Saul and David. How do you make good decisions under pressure? How do you deal with mistakes? What does courage look like? What does God expect of leaders.

I recommend this book as a personal study if you are in a position of leadership. I would love to take a leadership team through this book - maybe as an online discussion or during a board retreat.....This doesn't give the nitty-gritty tools others books do - but it does a good job on focusing on the intimacy a leader has with God - the spiritual care of a leader.

Being a Disciple: Counting the Real Cost by Kay Arthur, Tom and Jane Hart
I worked through this on my own as I was considering where it may fit in our chapel program. Our chapel vision is discipleship and I wanted to look at this before recommending it.  It is in the same series as the above study.

We are currently working through this one in our Family Circle. I love it! I love covering the topic with our kids. It's sometimes hard to understand the difference between being a "cultural Christian" and a "disciple" if you are raised in the church.  This study makes us ask the hard questions - and answer them together. AND we're teaching them how to approach the word inductively. We have decided I need to print out some sheets for each person with the passages we are covering. They need to be able to make marks.

From the website:  Jesus said, "Come, follow Me!" Will you? What will it take? Get past the fear of commitment and learn about the freedom of walking in Christ. What is the difference between a true follower of Jesus Christ and others who merely call themselves 'Christian'."

Highly recommended for a variety of settings.

Choosing Joy!
©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...