Janice
was born in Hardin, MT on Feb 10, 1941. She joined two brothers Bill and Jim -
9 and 17 years older than she.
Mom, Bill (L), Jim (R) |
Hardin, MT is directly outside the Crow Indian
reservation. Growing up in a diverse culture played a part in awakening her
heart to the needs of other cultures. Across the street from her home was Dick's
Drive-In - which featured a walk up window which served ice cream. Her mom
would save the spare change and allow Janice to walk across the street for a
daily treat. Thus began mom's life-long craving
for ice cream and other sweets.
Her father died when she was 16, a heartache
mom carried all her life. It also contributed to her certainty of the
importance of investing in family. A heart for the nations, an insatiable sweet
tooth and a love of family were to characterize Mom throughout her life.
1944 - Hardin, MT |
From
an early age Janice was "spunky."
Part of her early years were spent living in a hospital where her mother, Mabel Simmons, served as
hospital manager and head nurse. Mabel loved to tell a story of Mom at 3 years
old. They heard clomping down the stairs. Mom entered the room, put her hands
on her hips, and declared, "When you hear me coming down those stairs, I
want my breakfast on the table!"
Gram's
replied, "You don't say? Who says this?"
To which mom replied, "I AM!" As you can imagine, this exchange did not end quite the way Mom had intended.
Mom
eventually grew up and headed to Eugene, OR where she attended Eugene Bible College
and met and married, Dad, Paul Townsend. The rumors "we" hear is they
were known for pulling pranks in those years. They made life-long friends
during this season in their life, many are here today, and we thank you for the
parts you've played in Mom's life and in our family's history. One man, Walt
Olinger was driving a car one night in 1961 while Mom and Dad rode in the back.
Dad mustered up his courage to propose to Mom. She didn't answer... He asked
again; she sort of mumbled and WOKE UP! Yes, she'd fallen asleep during her
marriage proposal - or maybe she just wanted a couple of proposals. Friends like
these were treasured by Mom throughout her life.
Nov 17, 1962 |
In front of the barn where they had their first date - 2012 |
1968 - family photo |
After
an interval in the states, Mom and Dad moved to the Philippine Islands where
they again served as missionaries. They spent the next 22 years ministering in the barrios and
jungles of the Philippines."Ma'am Jan "taught Bible college classes,
INSTE and Bible studies during these years. By this time, Nate had joined the family. They continued to have unique pets. It was
during this time Mom, unknowingly, first sampled ground hog, dog and monkey.
She was not impressed. She loved to snorkel in the ocean and collected some
impressive shells. She continued to love riding her motorcycle around the
barrios.
Teaching in Mindanao, Phillippines |
Pastors, Dad, Mom and Nate on a trip |
We
have many ice cream stories about mom. All the grandkids remember Grandma's order of
two medium vanilla - cherry dipped cones with extra dip on the side from any
given Dairy Queen. She explained, "You get more dip with two mediums than
with one large." A routine meal included a THICK malt, fries and an ice
cream cone. In recent years, Mom was not supposed to drive and was supposed to limit
her sugar intake. Her granddaughter, Bre, was out with her family and was
surprised to find GRANDMA at Dicky Yo's...with a big dish of ice cream...alone.
"Don't
tell your Grandpa or Lorri!"
We didn't tell Grandpa - until we were sharing stories after Mom passed away.
Mom
loved her church family and treasured the friends she had here. Many of them
were friends dating from the 1960's. (Kathy - Mom's friend from college, and Bev - Mom's neighbor after college in 1965, were second mom's to me).
Mom and Dad on far left, Kathy playing accordian |
Mom & Bev at Bre's bridal shower |
Mom
realized she was "getting close" to aging around 70 and compiled a
bucket list. Michael had recently been deployed to the middle east and sent home
photos of himself riding on a camel. She decided she HAD TO ride a camel. Opportunity
presented itself when the 49'ers group from
Calvary scheduled a trip to the Wildlife Safari. Mom promoted camel rides for
our younger kids. As we waited in line, she said, "I'm going to ride a
camel today, too."
She would not be dissuaded.
She tried to talk De'Etta into getting on the camel with her as the operators
were allowing two on a camel.
Also
on Mom's bucket list was riding a zip line and sky diving. Mom asked Dad if he
would go sky diving with her. He said, "No! Why would I want to jump out
of a perfectly good airplane!" Somehow she convinced John Simmons to jump
out of a "perfectly good" airplane with her when she was 71 years old.
The funny thing is that she took a selfie of herself in front of the building
and texted it to her grandsons. The next one they got was a photo of her in the
sky with her hair flying...
Maybe
God set up a zip line for her near her mansion in heaven.
Mom
loved family. It was a driving passion in her life to have the entire family
over, sitting at one table, with fine china and a big meal. This didn't happen
nearly often enough for her liking. The last time we all had dinner at her
home, the one table morphed into four...I'm sure Mom has already begun planning
the big dinner she is going to have one day in heaven with all her family
around one very big table.
Entire family (at that date) at Mom and Dad's 50th Wedding Celebration |
Her
legacy is her love for others and her willingness to share Jesus and to give to
others. Even at the end of her days
while her pain levels were beyond excruciating, her heart's desire was to be a
good witness in order that others might know Jesus. She will be greatly missed
by family and friends.
Note: This was read at Mom's memorial service. If you missed the service and would like to view it, it will be archived here for another week or so. Click "Memorial Service for Jan."
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