This has been going around Facebook
Most back-biting I've observed in churches happens from consumers whose itch isn't being scratched. Note there is lots of room for Godly sharing our different points of view. God often speaks to leadership through this sort of dialogue.
"I'm just not getting fed." The shepherd leads the sheep to the pasture, he doesn't feed them. Sheep self-feed.
Living all of life before the face of God...