It was with a fair bit of trepidation that Stacia and Zander registered for AWANA. We've never done this program before (and if you want more info on why - read below).
I was a bit overwhelmed with the chaotic atmosphere (so were my kids) but we quickly adjusted. Stacia was happy to find Elizabeth, one of her friends, attending as well. We brought the girls home and Dawn picked up Elizabeth.
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This made vegan mommies HAPPY! So proud of the chapel for skippy the sugary snacks!
Stacia - ever the talker - further explained, "There were drinks, Mom but I knew it was stuff you wouldn't want us to drink."
Dawn gave the girls a high five. I told them I was proud of them. I was so pleased...... and then the bombshell....
Stacia in all seriousness said, "The teacher wanted us to take a drink, but I told her my Mom doesn't like us to drink beer and says we should stay away from beer."
ROFLOL ::snort:: ROFLOL ::gasp::
I've told them I prefer they not drink soda and eat a lot of processed sugary snacks, but when they are out it is their choice. I HAVE also explained, due to family history, our family chooses not to drink any alcohol at all. She knows beer is included in that category....and they had a nice selection of root beer. Personally, I'm happy as punch if they skip the soda and sugary snacks that late at night. Water works. LOL
The revelation that ZANDER was the one who reminded Stacia of our "no beer" policy made this story only funnier.
I feel for the poor AWANA leaders.
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1. When we entered the chaplaincy AWANA would not allow chapels to use their program as they required "churches"ll to sign a statement of faith which a chapel can't sign (we are not a denominational church). AWANA has changed their policy and many military chapels now are able to offer the program. This is the first time we've been assigned where the chapel program offered AWANA.
2. We have young children, we have tweens, we have youth. Michael is a chaplain. I am uber involved in women's ministry. I have spouse events I could attend. I have civic events I could attend.
3. Combine the above with the rest of our life and we COULD be out every night of the week.
4. Over the years it's become our policy to limit our "outside nights" to one weekly event. This way if Michael is working late, or required to be out, I can still protect our family ministry. This maintains the viability and importance of the dinner table, our reading hour, our precious FAMILY time with God. We say no to many things which the whole family would not participate in which happen at night - kids' programs, various civic groups etc....it works for us. We have discovered we need to be careful of even "family nights out" as too many of those also impact our ministry goals within our family.
5. When we arrived here we realized things could quickly get out of control. PWOC, PYOC, PMOC, AWANA - all on different nights....We were also looking at Boys and Girls Scouts and CAP - make that 5 - 6 nights a week. We chose to allow the kids to attend PYOC as we felt our youth's needs to make connections with other Christian youth was higher than our younger ones' need for outside Scripture memory help. It was a good call for us.
6. With the advent of CLUB BEYOND in Misawa three nights a week are needed for youth activities. This caused chapel schedules to change. PYOC moved to Wed night. Our kids will regularly attend Cross Training/PYOC on Wed night. This means it's ALREADY a night out and the younger ones are able to attend AWANA without "adding" a night out. I'm not sure how this will work with school the next day but so far so good.
7. Michael and I have talked about my need to resist volunteering at AWANA....and if we both maintain this stance....we have, for the first time in 28 years of marriage, a planned weekly time slot where all the kids are busy and we aren't. ::wink::
How does your family balance or regulate outside commitments with family time? We are currently looking at another one we care deeply about which would require another "out" night....we had thought it could be something the whole family attended....not sure now....but praying it through. I'd love to hear your thoughts.
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