How I Got Started Homeschooling or "Sacrifice/Surrender?" or "Conviction /Convenience/Choice?"

I WAS homeschooled back in the dark ages - 1968-71 or so....right, Mom? It didn't look like homeschooling does today. If you see the post further down you'll see that I lived in River Cess Liberia, West Africa. Mom and other Missionary teachers, used Calvert Correspondence to teach me K - 3rd. I think Calvert was about all that was available. Later I would attend private school while on furlough, public school while on furlough, and end up graduating from Faith Academy - a boarding school in Manila, Philippines for missionary children. Go VANGUARDS...now I'll stop there or this will become a post on growing up in a boarding school rather than "how I got started homeschooling".

Mike attended public schools in CO and CA. I was clueless about public schools in the late 70's and 80's.

Freshman (me) met Upper Classmen (Mike) in Bible College (1982) and before we were even dating I had heard Mike state his convictions that he wanted his children to be homeschooled. This is the FIRST I remember hearing about homeschooling. I did some research about the topic and discovered folks were going to jail for this. I was young - didn't scare me. ::snort:: We eventually married and it was always known that God had laid on Mike's heart (and now mine) that we would homeschool any children we had.

We began "officially" homeschooling in 1989. We used CLASS as it was about the only group that we heard about that was 1. legal, and 2. would sell to homeschoolers (back then the big name homeschool companies were NOT selling to homeschoolers or they didn't exist yet. LOL)

Homeschooling has been a tremendous tool that God used in my life. I've learned patience and gentleness...traits I didn't possess early in life. Quite truthfully, God used my love of my children to cause me to allow that pruning in my life. I learned time management (sometimes I'm better than others), discipline, self-control and surrender. I've had FUN learning with the children. I've learned things I missed in my own education. I've even slowly begun to learn that crayons, mess, paper scraps are OK if it means FUN in school. ::snort:: I've learned how to surrender and sacrifice.

One of the biggest benefits we've gained from homeschooling is our LIFESTYLE. We are able to move often in the military without the fear of gaps in school districts. We can take off and spend time together on Mike's days' off. We can travel during the school year. The children have a close relationship and care for each other - they are all they have for socializing from 7 a.m. - 3 p.m. each day. Our family unit and ties have been blessed in ways we didn't expect. We've been able to spend lots and lots of time with the children - mentoring and building mutual respect and love as a family unit.

Surrender.....SACRIFICE....did I mention those in passing? Homeschooling has caused me to make the tough choices for the sake of the call and vision to homeschool; for the sake of our vision of family. On a tape we received from CLASS early on, we were challenged to make homeschooling a CONVICTION rather than a CONVENIENCE. The speaker lectured about hard times, possible legal action etc and that if homeschooling was simply a convenience or a choice or a novelty, when the trials came we would give it up. We were challenged to pray over this issue and realized that it was a heartfelt conviction for us. This was what God wanted US to do for OUR family. This meant we sacrificed and we surrendered. Over time we've realized our choice was really chosen for us. I believe it is one of those "good works" prepared beforehand for us to walk in (See Eph).

I am called to daily die to self as I fulfill the call and vision God gave Mike (and then us as a couple) for our family. I have had to sacrifice a totally immaculate house, day time hours to pursue what *I* want, attending day time Bible studies, luxuries that many of my friends have....

As a family we've sacrificed. We live on one income. We skip some fun things in order to buy curriculum. We don't have the fanciest cars, the biggest house, the nicest toys, or wildest vacations....but it's OK - it's for the sake of His call for our family.

We have always said we'd pray each year about whether we should continue homeschooling (this was a great way to calm others' fears and we DID). I'm not sure I'd say we pray any longer about the decision.....because it's a conviction.....it's set after 18/19 years of homeschooling.....but we pray over each child, each year, each subject, each learning style, each opportunity that presents itself....and God continues to use homeschooling as a tremendous tool for growth in our family and in each of our personal lives.

There you have it - "how we got started homeschooling". This is my FIRST meme to participate in. If you'd like to read others thoughts on the same topic....go here for this week's participants.

The Ticker MOVED!

I realize that this isn't earth-shattering blog material for YOU - but the magnetic album ticker under goals in my side bar MOVED.

Last night was another Project Night. I spent March's night working two no-tie fleece quilts. I had no other projects but working on transferring photos for last night. I was NOT inspired...but hey....I'm their leader...I must go.

We had a good time. I loved the inter-generational interactions.  Laura was one of our new students.  Her parents owned a bakery. She grew up living above a bakery. It was fun to talk of her favorite dessert (and beg her to get her parents to send one to the chaplain's wife who has taken their young dd under her wing - but the truth is I know others are doing the same for my dds that are the same age). She told me that they used to make the dough the night before, let it rise in the fridge over night, then bake the next a.m. I think I'm going to try that - it would work well with my schedule, and we like our pizza dough like that. Jill was with us for the last time last night - she'll be moving on before May. Ugh.

I got another album transferred. I've filled the one Creative Memory album. CM is making changes to the size of their albums et al. I need to figure out how many packs of pages and things I will need to fill the albums I have here so that when I get to them, I don't run out of pages that will fit! (Shew run on sentence.)

I also began talking about a new style that will use up my paper, give my albums a bit of color, and still be QUICK. I think. We shall see. Thanks for the tips, Sherri.

At this point, I plan to continue to simply treat those big blank pages as "photo album pages", slap those photos in and journal. I'm getting them DONE, and that's my goal. I don't think I'll ever go back to my former "hobby" scrapbooking style (where it could take 6 hours to put ONE photo in the album).....but Sherri covers the page with colored paper which gives COLOR that I LOVE, and then slaps her photos down on the page. I think that would be QUICK and colorful. I may finish transferring these that Mom made for me and then try that on the ones after that.....because I began these this way, and I don't want to change mid-project, but I AM starting a new album in this project, and I'm out of natural pages and so have to change to white anyway.  Maybe I'll begin covering the white pages with paper in the next album....ugh decisions. LOL

I've transferred 5 of the magnetic albums Mom made me to this album.

Yes, I really am just transferring them - and it's been a trial to Debbie and Sherri to see me happily slapping photos onto the pages - but it's done! ::snort::

Now, I know what many of you are thinking, "You can go back, and do it right later." I reserve that right - but for now this seems exactly right. The kids can now see photos of me with my pet monkey, sleeping with my pet racoon, carrying wood on my head, in my African garb.  In other words, they can see photos to go along with the stories, and they don't CARE if each photo is matted. Thanks again mom for the gift of time and effort it took to make this album set for me all those years ago. GEEPERS - it WAS time to change the photos...many were being eaten by the magnetic pages.

SMIIIIII - LE!

They were all so cute - from 2 yo - 17 yo helping to unload produce from the van this morning. I was a bit fatigued from lifting myself, a nice photo op would surely be a good excuse to slack - just a bit. ::snort::

SMILE - STACIA

C'mon - SMILE! This girl loves photos, but evidently has entered that stage where a photographer saying "smile" will produce strange expressions. I'm a mom of NINE! I've been down this road before. I know exactly what to do. This always produces smiles....

FROWN, STACIA


Yikes. Jared asked if I photoshopped her expression - No. ::snort::

TORNADOES

I don't sleep often these days - but - WHEN I sleep - I SLEEP!

We noted Wed. morning (I think it was, maybe Tuesday) at about 12:30 a.m. that the sirens went off. We had stayed up late listening to the storm....in fact....I'm not sure we'd really gotten to sleep yet. There was thunder, hail, lightening....WIND. The siren went off. We don't remember this happening before, though Deja insists it has happened a few times since we've lived here. ::snort:: Maybe we were camping! Wed a.m. I began getting calls and emails asking if we were o.k. "Of course, it was just a bit of wind - nothing really came of it." ::snort::

Mike and I listened to the siren, we listened for a "freight train", we didn't wake up our children. In fact, we decided it was just another TX storm, and went to sleep while our friends huddled in closets and hallways. God has grace on silly military families. ::snort:: WE DID LISTEN - BUT THERE WAS NO TRAIN SOUND WHERE WE LIVED - AND I WASN'T WAKING UP ALL THESE CHILDREN FOR WIND AT 12:30 A.M.

It appears it DID touch down several places in town... look what we found at a local park....

Light poles don't usually look like this in W TX.


Roofs are usually not on the ground in W. TX (Zander in the blue)



And insulation is not usually found in Mesquite trees along with Mistletoe.

In MY defense, I've lived through many typhoons in the Philippines and this wasn't that strong....so I simply thought "another TX storm."  I do love the storms around here. I will know what the siren means next time, but it didn't touch down on our block, and we are thankful. It did blow down several fences and branches in our neighborhood.

I'm Not Sck, in Danger, or Pregnant....

I know some of you worry when I miss blogging for a day....so there you have it.
Tuesday - we finished up our study of Ephesians. I need to write a review of these materials. I'm totally happy with them for use in PWOC. I downloaded a new study for us to do for the next 5 weeks, as the books we've ordered aren't in. We'll begin next fall with Proverbs. Flexibility is the key to a stress-free life. ::snort::
I completed our United Food co-op order.
I began to dialog with a group about a new endeavor.
Wednesday - ran most of the day. I was at the base early to sponsor a group on to the Holocaust Remembrance. WOW - this is moving each year. You can read more about my thoughts from last year here. I have another list of authors and books to read. I got a work out in after the remembrance.
I put in our Produce co-op order.
I finished reading, "A Mending at the Edge" and will review it and give a couple of copies of it away "soon". What a timely book to be reading considering the big news here in W. TX.
Today - Early a.m. workout. I drove the boys across town for their ministry op. I continued to try to learn things like feedburners, animated headlines et al.
I did a bit more in our new Bible study. I'm unsure......
I kept busy with bookwork and email things. I tried to add that feedburner thing, but it doesn't look like it does on all y'alls blogs. I'm not sure what it's supposed to do - but I DID it. All alone. ::snort::
I began reading "Do the Hard Things" and yes - I'll post that review and a giveaway on Monday.
This is just a crazy week, and tomorrow night is a PWOC Project night. WHY are some weeks like this? I've not done couch school more than once all week.
Josiah just got home from the Holocaust Remembrance at the University. He got to hear the gentleman that I've heard is excellent. Josiah said it was packed. I heard that Walter began his talk on base by saying, "I believe in heaven. I've seen hell". Walter talks about being 12 - 17 in the Warsaw Ghetto and then being in a concentration camp. He talks about sick, sad, things he witnessed, his brother dying in his arms...the death march at the end of the war, the Russians taking all he had....it's powerful. He ended by saying, "Now, I'm an American, and once again, I'm human." It is HARD to describe the emotions I've felt each time I've gone. SHAME that America had the information and did nothing to intervene, that we turned refugees away...PRIDE that we offered a new home and a safe haven to heal to so many after the war....horror and incredible sadness that humans can do this to each other.....and a call to intercession for those countries where genocide is still happening today.

I'm a Priest

Have you ever had a child say something that totally flummoxed you? I have no IDEA where Stacia got this idea.

She walked in like this and said, "I'm a priest". I thought maybe she meant princess or something, but she was adamant....she was a priest and this was proper attire. We have lots of friends who are priests.  The only one she knows is Father Jim and to the best of my knowledge he's never worn a hat of any sort..... Who knows?

Passover Books

I bought myself a month by saying that I was going to celebrate according to the Jewish calendar and now it's time for me to figure out what we are going to do.

I have some great women in my life. God blesses me well. Sherri loaned me a book on Jewish Holidays - thanks. I read it and was calmed. I'm starting to get a handle on the huge amount of information coming my way, and we are going to relax, enjoy this, and hey....get it wrong....I'm sure...but we'll get it right as we go along year after year. LOL

THEN in the mail I got two books from a dear sis in AK......Can you believe it? FROM ALASKA SHE MAILED THEM TO ME BECAUSE SHE KNEW THEY'D BE GREAT FOR THE KIDS WHEN SHE SAW THEM!!! They are exactly what I needed to help bring Passover down to the level of our youngest two/three.
I think she got them from Scholastic, and they are just what I needed. Great picture type books for me to read WITH the little ones so they begin to get a picture of what we are about to do. The first one is titled, "P is for Passover" by Tanya Lee Stone. It's an alphabet book. Each letter quickly discusses, illustrates, and describes an element of Passover.
The next book Darshia sent is "The Passover Seder" by Emily Sper. This is a touch, turn, open, and learn Scholastic book. It's darling. It has Israelites who you move across the dry Red Sea, a seder plate that turns, a cup that drips wine for each plague, herbs to touch....

A few examples: A haggadah (order of service) that you can open. I tried several times to open it from the wrong side. ::snort::

There's a "cloth" that you lift to discover matzah beneath.

Then you can BREAK the matzah.


Another book that I pulled off the shelf to use is a Tapestry of Grace selection, "Walk with Y'shua Through the Jewish Year", published by Jews for Jesus. They explain the tradition, give you a brief Scripture tie-in, a couple of crafts and a recipe or two.

I've been spending some time trying to work out the details of our first Seder. The toughest part is finding a night that all will be HOME.....I've read that some observant Jews celebrate the Seder for 7 nights....so if I can hit one night somewhere around the right time....or we may have to do this without the older two boys....but I'd hate that. I think that the celebration will make big connections for adults and older ones......and I don't want them to miss it.