Sunday, August 03, 2014

August is FINALLY here!

Yes, this is August. The month this girl has been counting down since January! August is THE best month of the year. It is Stacia's birthday month.  She will "finally" be nine years old in "12 days and a wake up!"


For weeks she kept track of the days for us.....43 days and a wake up....I. AM. NOT exaggerating. 

She had hoped for a tea party again this year, but her friends are going to be on vacation or unavailable..... We don't often do friend's birthday parties....family parties are usually enough. Stacia isn't sure there is enough family to count these days. 

She has told us over and over, "First Jared missed my birthday, now Arielle is missing my birthday." Krista and Arielle are scheduled to be back 23 August...but shhh....only because I KNOW she does NOT read the blog....They plan on walking in on her birthday to surprise her! It will be priceless! We need to set up a video as well as still and be ready. LOL

She has asked for a flute, a sewing machine and either a smart phone or ipad/kindle. Um...Yeah....about that....these parents have a birthday budget and I suspect none of THOSE options are going to be in the budget.  But I can guarantee she is going to be on ecstatic gal on 16 August.

Now....shhhhhh......keep the secret!

Choosing Joy!
©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Relaxing with Jesus

I spent a lovely hour this a.m. preparing a session for the Fall Rally.  It's been rattling around in my mind for months - but it's time to collect thoughts, do word studies, brainstorm hooks and illustrations - figure out how it will all shape up for this one session.

The verse is simple - Eph 5:1....

I was surprised to find three pages in the word dictionary on "therefore." I thought I'd found something very profound - but it didn't hold up to the breakfast test. You know - the point in time when you share it with the household theologian over breakfast and realize it wasn't so profound after all and wonder WHY you were so very excited at 0500? Therefore. Seriously.

I moved on to "be." SIX pages!  I'm having fun digging into this.....it's my kind of relaxing....and I have until 22 Aug to finish the session.

Choosing Joy!
©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Saturday, August 02, 2014

Joy's Pillow

Is there anything sweeter than Joy with the pillow Stacia made her?  Rachel says she takes it with her everywhere.

This little gal has helped me confuse numerous people as she calls me "Gamma" or "Gemma" - sort of a cross. I can tell people trying to figure out how my daughter and I are both active duty at the same assignment.....and Rachel doesn't look a lot like me.....but Joy has adopted me and I'm happy to be adopted.

She REALLY loves Stacia and Arielle - guess I came with the package.

I really tried to find her some blingy flip flops like mine - but they were sold out. I should have picked out a pair when I bought mine. I was right there in the kids' department.





Choosing Joy!
©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Nevada City

I was determined to be functioning  today!  The flu would not take away the luxury of another Saturday unfilled with Sunday Prep.

United Methodist Church 
Last Saturday Michael wanted to hike in the mountains. I have been wanting to get out and explore. He asked the kids if they would like to go hiking or bowling. NEVER in a million years did he think they would choose bowling. They haven't caught the outdoor hiking bug as our older crew did. It is  also blazing hot in this part of California.

Michael planned for us to go hiking today. We weren't giving the kids a choice THIS week.  Then we remembered, I've been in bed all week. Maybe a long hike in screaming heat wasn't the best plan.  We settled on driving to Nevada City - a spot we've wanted to check out - instead.  We asked the kids if they were coming or staying. We'd have been perfectly happy for it to be a date day. They wanted to come.

We told ourselves it was "less hot" in Nevada City - but I'm not 100% sure that is true.  We enjoyed strolling down the Historic District.  The buildings are beautiful.


Alex



We would have looked if he'd called our names - but this is the only one of
Nolan and I. 
There were MANY Buddha Shops - which surprised me.  Grass Valley had more artsy fartsy things to buy - like the really cool sand art/frame I still think about.  However, we DID manage to buy two things..... In an antique shop run by a WW2 vet (a very old gentleman who I enjoyed talking with while the others tromped around).....
No, I don't collect Depression Glass - yet. I did sort of say I wasn't starting a new collection - these were just pretty. I had it in  mind that I needed to be on the lookout for a sugar and creamer. These turn out to be vintage Jeannette Glass - Cherry Blossom Pattern and from what a quick Google search shows I got a great deal.  They were out with the other fancy dishes. They were on a shelf marked "Private" - down a hallway. I told the gentleman I loved them and he said, "They're for sale."  I hoped I was getting a good deal but figured I wanted some Depression Glass and these will remind me of our conversation AND our family day in Nevada City. 

I remembered later,  I was on the lookout for a creamer for the CHAPEL - I believe I'll keep looking and keep this. 





It was a hot day. We spent a couple of hours walking up and down streets......we ended our trip with a visit to the Ice Cream Parlor....even though today is NOT Sunday.

Choosing Joy!
©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Friday, August 01, 2014

Summer Reads (June & July)

I have continued my commitment to carve time for reading out of the day.  I spent much of June's "free" time preparing for our PWOC Training Event and a week  at VBS - both events both drained AND energized me.....Summer is busy with more time with friends, family and trips - I knew I wouldn't be reading a lot of "meaningful" books this summer. In fact the vast majority of these could be classified as brain candy. Much needed brain candy.  

Hearts of Fire - Eight Women in the Underground Church and Their Stories of Costly Faith by the Voice of the Martyrs - This is a wonderful book. It's challenging and convicting. It tells simply the stories of eight women who have chosen not to deny Jesus even though persecuted for that faith. The stories range from the past to current. They cover eight different countries. Highly recommended. 

I discovered a new-to-me author. Jeanette Windle is a missionary kid who grew up in the jungles of Columbia. Her detailed research and writing has prompted government agencies to question whether she receives classified information.  At times her details bog me down but the characters and plot keep me reading past the first few chapters.  All these books were offered over the past few years as free or nearly free for kindles....yep - reading through my kindle these days! My only other quibble with Jeanette's writing is like Terri Blackstock or Joel Rosenberg - I get LOST in her writing......

Betrayed by Jeanette Windle - Engrossing mystery set in Guatemala. Vicki sets about to unravel her sister's murder and in the process discovers much about herself and her parents murders in Guatemala years earlier. As the back of the book states, "A politically relevant tale of international intrigue and God's redemptive beauty and hope."

Veiled Freedom and Freedom's Stand by Jeanette Windle In Veiled Freedom, Amy Mallory arrives in Kabul as an idealistic relief worker. She meets all sorts of expats as she seeks to learn the culture and to serve the women of Afghanistan. Freedom's Stand continues the story and focus' more on a convert to Christianity. I found both books to be intriguing.  Michael hasn't wanted to talk a lot about his time in Afghanistan but these books opened several great conversations. Definite bonus!

Realizing I would not be living fully present if I kept reading Jeanette Windle I took a break from her. 

Prayers from the Pews: The Power of Praying for Your Church by Teri Underwood. It's become popular in recent years to declare a love for Jesus but a dislike,or lack of need of the church. But Jesus calls the church His bride. We are instructed NOT to forsake gathering together. It is also popular in some circles  to critique Pastors and churches online etc. Teri shows us a better way. She writes SHORT chapters - great for devotional use - each encouraging us to pray for OUR church.  I found this easy to read and convicting. I am praying for my church much more than critiquing my church these days.

The Potluck Club, The Potluck Club - Trouble's Brewing and The Potluck Club Takes the Cake - by Linda Shepherd and Eva Everson I debated posting these. I'm almost embarrassed to admit I read not one but all three of this series. These books are set around a multi-generational group of women who meet once a month to share food and to pray. I suppose I was drawn in by the story of long-lived friendships, as well as the multi-generational make up of the group. Something I've been thinking about a lot lately. Totally chick lit.

And even more embarrassing than reading three books of TOTAL brain candy? I read the follow on Series as well. ::snort:: 

The Secrets in the Sauce, Taste of Fame, Bake Until Golden by Linda Shepherd and Eva Everson The women of the Potluck Club begin a catering company. I had to know if Evie ever gets Sheriff Vernon Vesey, which man Donna would choose, if Lisa LeAnn ever settles into life in Summit - and so I continued to read.

About this time I thought I should try something a bit more challenging and so I started (but haven't finished) Mission Drift, Transforming Prayer, Gospel Centered Life, Releasing Your Potential and Kingdom Journeys. I will try to finish at least one of these in August....but it still wasn't time to give up my summer reads. No matter how many "real" books I started. 

The Restaurant of Many Orders by Kenji Miyazawa This is more of a short story. Ryu and Kim gave Nolan and Arielle a list of Japanese books to read over the summer. I believe the idea is to understand Japanese culture better.  I thought I'd read along. I started with this short story. Two hunters are wandering the woods and find a wonderful restaurant which is sure to serve great meals. Um - well.

With summer nearing an end, I decided I could risk a few more all engrossing books and started a new Terri Blackstock series - the Moonlighter Series. 

Truth Stained Lies and Distortion by Terri Blackstock Cathy Cramer is a lawyer turned investigative blogger. She writes about what she sees in cases - not waiting for verdicts.  Life changes when her brother is set up for the murder of his wife. She sets out with Michael -police detective turned Private Investigator- to unearth the truth about the murder. In Distortion, Cathy's sister, Juliet, watches as her husband is murdered - and then discovers his secret life. I am looking forward to the release of book three in the Moonlighter Series. Distortion ended with a bit of a cliff hanger.

Congo Dawn  by Jeanette Windle - I ended the month sick in bed and decided to read Congo Dawn. The story began slow - because of many details - but WOW - when it takes off it rocks.  Ex- Marine Lieut Robin Duncan is hired by a private security firm.  She learns nothing is as it seems and the good guys are often hard to tell from the bad guys in the Democratic Republic of the Congo. Another winner from Windle!

There it is. Lots of reading this summer but not one meaningful title among the list. I've decided that's o.k. I obviously needed to relax and re-discover the joy of reading for fun  - these books did that for me. 

Choosing Joy!
©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Flu Update

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I had hoped I was good to go on Wednesday. Unfortunately, that may have been my worst day. The fever abated, but my head was POUNDING and I couldn't sit up without getting dizzy and nauseous. 

Thursday, I woke up with a fever of 96.2 and I began to think of my girls and my friends who always made me chicken noodle soup when I was ill. I began to CRAVE sick soup!

This is  illogical on many levels. 1. I don't eat meat. 2. I have friends here who asked me to let them know if I needed "anything" - surely they would have made me some chicken  Veggie broth. 3. I hadn't wanted to EAT for three days....and I still didn't really eat on Thursday. 4. Outside my room it is rumored to be 106*. Nevertheless I craved Chicken Noodle Soup visits from Bre, Krista, Arielle, Twyla or Marvie!  

Yesterday my temp went up and down but never higher than 99*. 

Today - I feel good! (Can you hear the music). OK pretty good.  I'm taking it EASY. I get up and don't feel terrible. I may make myself some soup. I ventured downstairs and discovered several new packages to explore.  I'm on my bed - not IN MY BED; where I've refused to be from Day 2- but am blogging, listening to another Loving Well series so I can make a note taker for our Fall Rally, in other words...YES I'M TIRED and I'M TAKING IT EASY....but I'm not sleeping in a dark room or watching endless Netflix shows. 

These three are champs. They may not know how to make the "sick soup" - YET - but they've all completed a full week of school! The house is clean  fine and they've occupied each other. 

By the way Stacia "WON GIN RUMMY" and GREAT was the hooting, hollering and celebrating. Michael told me later it was one hand - but hey - it was huge for her. 
Choosing Joy!
©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Expired!


Do medications really expire?  Common sense and decades of cheapskate frugal-Ramsey living, has proven to us that most expiration dates can safely be stretched. Drugs do not all of a sudden quit working on the stroke of midnight, they don't become dangerous  the day they go "stale." 

I've had a hard time believing how stubborn my fever is being. I don't often get fevers. Because of my thyroid condition my normal temp are 1 - 1.5 degrees lower than "normal average" - regardless of my levothryoxin dosage. This means I can be SURE I'm feverish and I'm not. I sure wish we'd understood this when I was a kid ::snort:: ANYWAY - this week my fevers have been 100.2 which  I imagine is about what 101.6 would feel like to the rest of you. I don't usually take meds, but I wasn't loving this feeling. I've been taking  Tylenol around the clock while bemoaning the fate of my Uncle Bill - determined not to take enough to make me deathly ill..... and it's helped "a bit" - but I still have a fever. 

Oy vey. It may have not lost all potency at the stroke of midnight November 30, 2006....but by the stroke of midnight July 30, 2014 - it's lost some umph! ::snort::  I can't figure out HOW we have this bottle. I threw out or gave away all medicines when we left Japan and this was dated well before that....but there you have it. 

I have a bottle of Aleve (expires 2015) and I took a pill or two.....

So thankful for boys who went in to help with PCOC....and friends who will carry on just fine this a.m.....and a friend who will bring the boys home so they don't have to stay in until 8:00 p.m. Much for which to be thankful! 

Psssttttt.....I found comfort in the solidarity of being sick at the same time as the girls.....connected across the miles. LOL 

Choosing Joy!
©2014 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...