Midnight Hours

Yesterday evening Zander told me, "Mom, the babies in your scomach died and we cried. You shouldn't of let those babies in your scomach die - go get some more?" I've already struggled - and taken captives the thoughts that threaten to overwhelm. Mother's Day: "What kind of a mother are YOU - you can't even keep your baby safe?" But I know to react calmly to little ones questions - they are simply processing the situation as best they can. We talked. I didn't cry.

Then we went out to eat and there was a tiny baby fussing at the table next to us. Stacia was fascinated and went to visit. They turned the seat so she could watch. She loved it. She cooed and was sweetness itself (shew)! ::snort::They had named their baby a name I was hoping to use this time. It made me sad.

At home I had a message from PBS that a book I'd auto requested was on it's way to me: Supernatural Childbirth.

After everyone else was asleep I spent some time alone, praying. I cried. I reminded myself that Paul said he'd LEARNED to be content. I taught myself a few things I'd taught before. Being a Bible Teacher is so much fun - those words are always rattling around in my head somewhere. Honestly, it IS a blessing. {G} I chose again (and will do it repeatedly, as often as necessary) to be content, to be satisfied with this season of life, to recognize that my Shepherd leads and in short - to choose joy once again. Deliberately and repeatedly.

Maybe you are walking through a tough situation....one of those that doesn't naturally lead to joy and contentment. Even though your situation is totally different than mine - the lessons are the same. He leads. He's to be trusted. We have to repeatedly choose to rest contentedly. We have to deliberately and repeatedly choose to handle our trials in the way he Has instructed us. I picture handing the pain/trial/circumstance to him and telling him to squeeze every last drop of learning he has for me out of the thing before we move on.....maybe that way I'll be here less often. Or I can learn deeper lessons during the next trial?

GETTING MY LIFE ORGANIZED

I am by nature a perfectionist. (Alright - already - I can hear those who have known me in recent years yucking it up!!!!) I am a RECOVERING Perfectionist. I learned years ago that I was making my family CRAZY by my need to organize, plan, have every thing in its spot etc. I would chase around after them picking up dishes before they were through, moving newspapers when they got up to get a new glass of milk...that sort of nutso. I relaxed the standard. We no longer aim for perfection - excellence will do. We also loosely describe excellence in some seasons of our life. ::snort:: BUT I, personally, still feel better with lists, schedules, plans, CLEANLINESS......so I'm out to get my life back under control after the past few whirlwind months.
To manage as many circles of life as I do - I NEED TO BE ORGANIZED. I've been sick, not well, had major events, the miscarriage - frankly it was time to organize. So I spent the day working on getting my life back. Unfortunately that meant another day on the PHONE. I needed to organize co-op things, chapel things, school things, online things....and GRRRRRR Vacation things.

I had no idea what time it was until Mike arrived home and suggested we do THIS for dinner (two older boys were working):

Zander played a charming doorman

Then we came home. I set about to check more off the "to do" list. Mike and Jared went to get gas. I received a call and for the first time EVER Mike had locked his keys in the vehicle. We hopped in the Honda and went to the rescue.

Back home Mike and Jared helped me out of the "nothing to blog" dilema. Seems Cadet G of the Civil Air Patrol was told to lose the facial hair before Thursday.

Here's our traditional "it's time to shave" photo - Jared and Mike

Jared assures Mike he knows what to do with a razor!

And Stacia brings polish to Arielle for help with Chigger Relief, she had one on her tummy

A photo from Friday's Movie Night....note the polish on Arielle's neck. LOL Other daily tidbits: we cleaned, drained and moved the kiddy pool. A dove had dived into it and met its end. We got a bit of our "summer school" done. I found myself out buying Benadryl at 3:30 a.m. The ONLY time to shop at Walmart! ::snort::

Jared did another two lawns.

I'm looking for rental cars. Has anyone found a great spot for THAT - like maybe CRBO (Car Rentals by Owners)? ::snort:: I'm not sure if it's because we are trying to rent a car in Anchorage or because of the time of the year - but I KNOW we paid about 1/2 this cost when we were traveling two years ago. Anyway, if you have any tried and true site or such leave them in the comment section - ok? Or we may hitch hike while in Anchorage. LOL

Jamin and Josiah are home from work...time to bring this to an end.

Book Discussion Question

How are we all doing? I know that Lisa is through Chapter 8. I see some of the rest of you posting on the links?

I've slowed down as the pace of a section a week seems to be too much for most. I was trying to finish the book before we left on vacation and so that it would be finished on my Spring Reading Thing....BUT if you all are back on chapter 3 or 4...then I'll wait until next week to post more blurbs.

I think I will go ahead and read and save entries in draft and then I can post them while I'm gone if need be.

BUT how are you all doing? Remember this book can be incredibly convicting - but don't let Satan turn that to condemnation in your life. Conviction we take to the cross and we repent - turn and go a new way.

Storm Sirens...

Lived her two years and have never had them do THIS during a storm.....though they test them on the 1st of every month at noon.

Anyway - I'm supposed to be grabbing the children and heading up to chapel...but they are sounding sirens and saying grapefruit size hail and 70 mph winds at 5:30....right when I need to be driving. We shall see.

Meanwhile, I really don't know what they expect you to do when the sirens blow. I suppose I should check and see if it has significance beyond warning you that a "nasty storm" is on its way.

Happy TWENTIETH Birthday to Krista!

Wow - this is the BITTER SWEET phase of parenting.....seeing them do so well out on their own but wishing we could be with them for every celebration and down day. ::snort::

20! What a wonderful woman of God Krista has become! She taught us SO much about parenting, life, schooling......and Krista has such a gift of service...it's amazing.

Happy birthday, Babe.

LINKING A GRAPHIC

OK - Kristine showed me how to do this with the Pray for Heather picture. Since Jamie asked how, I went and played with the html code and I can't get the summer one to link. Will someone who has linked the GRAPHIC share step by step instructions as to how you did it. When I tried my code/title was too long to fit in the title box....so I was going to change the title of the post but then I wondered if it would break the link that some of you have already set.

NOW - Jamie - what I did was upload the graphic in blogger as a photo. THEN I went to the template section and clicked "link list". I right clicked on the time stamp of the SRC official post, clicked properties, copied that code into the link list at blogger and titled it "intro/rules whatever". Directly under THAT I did the same thing with my post that has my reading list. SO...if you click on the graphic in my sidebar you go no where....but the links are directly under it for you to click on.

WHO linked the graphic? Tell me how. Maybe you can share the code in the comment section for all of us, oh wise, wise, techie one. ::snort::

SATURDAY HAPPENINGS

I slept good last night. I rarely takes meds other than my Synthroid. Deja was convinced that taking liquid Benadryl would help. Since I am still itching (1/2 of us are better and 1/2 are better but still itchy), I wanted to try it. I slept. I took the lowest adult dose and it knocked me out and helped with itching. Thanks Deja. Arielle and I took doses today too.

I woke up bright and early and headed for the yearly Parish Advisory Council Planning meeting at the chapel. Hoot! Hoot! This is NOT my favorite meeting of the year, but really it was painless. I've been at bases where this was a weekend retreat or 3 Saturday ordeal. Our group is great. No haggling. Some questions but really all focused on working as a team to come up with a budget that will help us fulfill our goals and mission on base. We had breakfast, lunch and were out of there by 1:00. Impressive. Our Sr. Protestant is a keeper - and I get to go home with him. LOL

Mike took me out to Coldstone on the way home. WHEW!

We got home and I was exhausted - I think more from the Benadryl than any lingering blood count....Stacia was sleeping. Mike took all the rest to the base's pool at the lake. They had a great time. They've been wanting to go all week but I wasn't pool ready. Josiah's been working all day. Jamin worked about 5 hours. I napped with Stacia.

Bre called. We discussed lots of things - including my chore card system. ::snort::

I had a few minutes before the family got home so I skimmed SHS mail and checked out Sidetracked Home Executives. I'm guessing that since I bought the book 16 years ago MAYBE they have some computer programs or something by now. I didn't get much time to look before....

the family returned home and we discovered a dead dove in the kids' pool. ARGH. Off to Sam's we went to buy bleach (for the pool) and milk (for the children). We checked out laptops - we bought the girls each a laptop when they graduated and need to do that for Josiah too. They gave us a free chicken - did you know they do that at closing time? I think that's the polite way of saying "Don't you think you should leave already?" LOL