Sunday, May 29, 2016

Family Cookout

Josiah drove down from Seattle last night. He and Jared wanted to take Cory out for breakfast today. Their day began early.  It's hard to get to know the whole family when the family is spread across four states. I'm glad the boys and Cory had this time to get to know each other.  

The rest of us went to first service at Calvary...and then home to plan for the big ole family potluck/ cookout. 

Sherri - our sister in law 
 Dad, Josiah and Michael enjoying the gorgeous weather

Games 
Larissa, Nolan, Jared
 Will grilled a variety of meats

Lassie - the grand dog and Harmony and Stacia 

Dinner!

Bella was not feeling great 

Chatting
Cy, Bre, Jared, Larissa
 Arielle and Cory - she needed to nap before heading to a long shift

CoRielle left so Arielle could work. BreZaak headed home as Bella wasn't feeling well. Cy left to head back to Seattle as he has to work tomorrow. The rest of us hung out and continued to enjoy each other's company. 

After dinner Bocce 
Michael, Alex, Nolan, Jared, Larissa
It was a truly blessed Sunday. This was our "Memorial Day" celebration.....so everyone who has to WORK can relax on Monday.....

Saturday, May 28, 2016

Revolving Door at the Airport

Eventually, we will remember that flights into Eugene often land early! This was the case today.  We arrived just about right - but it was nip and tuck... Our grand pets - Bleeker the rag doll cat and Lassie the Shelty - were tuckered out from the journey. These two traveled all the way from TX - and brought JaRissa with them! ::wink:: 


JaRissa meet Bella



Mom (G'ma) loves having grandkids visit


Krista left soon after JaRissa arrived. She is going to Lynchburg for two weeks of intensive work on her MDiv program at Liberty University. 

All of us and Dakota met up again at BJ's for Izaak's birthday dinner. This is only part of the group. 

Will's Marathon and Musings

We moved over to my brother, Will, and his wife, Sherri's, house yesterday afternoon. Our trip to OR was rather sudden - prompted by the VA, and the campgrounds are full this weekend. This morning we headed over to a beautiful spot in Springfield and waited....
Stacia and Harmony (Will & Sherri's granddaughter)

There he is! Will (ahem - 50 years old) finishing his third marathon - 26+ miles. I'm impressed! 

I found myself oddly emotional as we watched others cross the line and then Will come in. A marathon - it's a long run, pace matters, it takes courage to run a marathon to the end, and training and hydration, grit....and it seems to me that we're running our own sort of marathon.....and I simply need to keep putting one foot in front of the other. I don't have to keep up with another racer; I simply need to finish my race...


One foot in front of the other - and eventually -  you cross the finish line. 

Well done, Will. We're proud of you! 

Friday, May 27, 2016

Bella at 6.5 Weeks Old

Izaak is the master of the grill. We enjoyed dinner with BreAnne, Izaak and Bella tonight. BONUS! Sabbath and Althea (may have that name wrong?) joined us as well. Steak, salmon, shrimp....good stuff. We also had good times! 

I'm not sure how Izaak ended up fixing his own birthday dinner - but we totally enjoyed it! 

Bella is six weeks old - time is flying. 

Bella and BreAnne

Toys

Bella is perplexed...."Really, Gemma?" 


Thursday, May 26, 2016

Enjoying S'more Family Time

While the VA did take up much of your day yesterday (0745-1530), we did enjoy some family time. 

We knew where to find Bre and Bella and went on the search! Don't you love that little finger? "Now listen here, Gramps..." 

We stopped by Mom and Dads and scored some wood! Krista stopped by the campground in time to help Stacia with a plan. She's determined to learn to juggle. Yay! She's been using Bocce balls (hard - like Croquet balls)....Krista has taken classes with kids on juggling. She filled balloons with rice - much closer to a starter size, less painful, easier to toss....
We'll have to watch her when a circus is in town
 Michael and the kids decided to play Bocce while we waited for dinner. Yuuki placed herself right in the field - do you see the white and red balls? 


 Krista had to go home and take care of homework after dinner, but CoRielle, Gma, Gpa and Lorri all came by to share our campfire.

Yes, there were s'mores...and maybe I caught my blanket on fire a little. 

We haven't had a fire since we left Beale the end of March. We stayed outside and used all the wood....Stacia seems to have inherited my tendencies. 

It was a lovely day. 

Our Grand Day at the VA Clinic

Occasionally, one finds answers unexpectedly. This was our case today at the local VA clinic.   Michael had the marathon VA intake appointments in March.

In mid-May we received notice of a disability rating.  It only took 6 weeks from the appointment and we were amazed. It was lower than we'd been told to expect. It was still good - but there were several issues that impact Michael's daily life, which were not given any rating.  Many listed with "further development" on them. Our VSO has not explained. We're in the process of finding a new VSO who is responsive to his "clients."

Last week we received notice of two appointments for today. We drove to Oregon. We were at the VA clinic at 0745. Michael asked me to come with him to these appointments. He told the docs I'm his memory. ::wink::   We knew one was for "ortho" and were told the other was  a "go forward" appointment.

Ortho was "ok." We were constantly asked, "What happened 10 years ago?" as he traced the story of Mike's pain and joint issues. I suggested Stacia's birth - but that certainly wouldn't impact MICHAEL'S health. I told him numerous Air Force docs have told Michael he simply was "getting old."  That didn't fly either.  We didn't KNOW what happened to trigger the downward spiral of health. We left the first appointment wondering what the point of these appointments were. I asked the doctor that very question and he told us he wasn't an insurance man - he was a doctor. Hmph! ::snort::

Our second appointment began when we were greeted and told this was a "go forward" appointment and she was the "Gulf War Evaluator."   I struggled with my attitude for a bit....we have not asked for anything related to the Gulf War, we've not claimed anything pertaining to  the Gulf War....WHY are we here?  This doctor, though not in insurance, DID answer my questions. She is the "further development" for the issues the doctor at Mather didn't rate. Seems they wanted to get some rating to us quickly and  rated on the obvious......these next appointments are to get further information and then they'll adjust ratings as needed.

She'd read all 450 pages of Michael's medical records. She said, "You have a lot going on."  ::snort:: Michael has consistently said Parkinsons is the biggest impact on daily life, but he is in constant pain, and I've mentioned there are days he can't move.  Muscle pain. He told them this over and over. They basically said, "You're getting old." Well....when I mentioned that to the docs today they both said, aging wasn't a good answer. The one doc said, "No, this isn't aging. I'm 10 years older and I don't have to live with chronic pain."  Gotta love seasoned civilian docs. She said she'd traced his pain, his extreme fatigue and a few other symptoms and it all began about 10 years ago.  This time, instead of quizzing us about what we did 10 years ago...she told us what she'd unearthed in the medical records.

Ten years ago Michael filled out a form called a  PDHA - Post Deployment Health Assessment. This was in his records.  When troops return home they complete this form. She quoted from it and he mentioned the one thing bothering him was muscle pain and stiffness. She said this is a red flag. Less than 6 months later one can begin to trace various muscle issues being reported (pain, stiffness, weakness, chronic fatigue etc).  She said it's common for vets returning from the Gulf War to have these symptoms. She also said it is classic Fibromyalgia - and she threw in  a few more terms  too. Of the 18 pain points, he had 17 today (and this was a pretty good day).  This explains the bad days, the pain that really hasn't gotten better with Parkinson's meds. The VA doesn't require a vet to have medical documentation of service connection with Fibro IF they've been deployed to the Gulf War. She asked questions about some of the environmental things he was exposed to, and said it is impossible to know everything and so they don't require a documentation of exactly what you were exposed to. She said the fact that he has fibro, was deployed over to the area several times, has no family history,  AND had mentioned it on the PDHA makes it a solid case. It also explains all the "inexplicable aging pains."

She suggested we get set up for a PCP (Primary Care Physician) so  we can begin to discuss treatment options for the many things which have been "evaluated," but not treated.  This sounds like a great idea. ::wink:: I knew something was missing from all these evaluations. LOL

Bottom line - we have some answers - and five new appointments and THEN they will make a final determination on the rating. Meanwhile, his current rating makes him priority 1 at the VA and he can get care and meds there for free (to include neurology for Parkinsons).  The VA doc advised we not appeal until after they make a final determination. She said we may not need to appeal.

To be clear - they are NOT saying he doesn't have Parkinson's. They are saying that his time in the Gulf War can explain the inexplicable, for which we've been searching for answers for years. Michael found a doc who did not say, "You're aging."

Our third and fourth appointment went without excitement. Michael IS aging and has degenerative arthritis - not sure if they'll rate for this or not.  We entered him into the system to begin health care at the VA . We are unsure if we will transfer neurologists, but we'll discuss options with the PCP (which is a PCM in the military) the end of June.

Wednesday, May 25, 2016

We've Landed

Keeping in mind the 12 hour rule of parking at the rest area, we got up early and headed down the highway. NOT before Michael hiked to the truck stop and brought back doughnuts for breakfast. I'm not sure why, but this is the one truck stop we've hit where we grab a doughnut each time we pass through. LOL
A Caboose sandwich

We arrived before the campground would like us check in....so we toured the city....dragging the Caboose adds a touch of adventure to any drive.  Eventually, we converged on mom and dad - they'd been busy in the morning. CoRielle (they like this name best, as do we) joined us. We managed to get a game of Farkle in before it was time to head to the campground.

 We had just enough time to set up and grab showers (a luxury not available at a rest stop) before Krista showed up. Wow - someone tail ended her and her car is a mess! We drove across town to pick up our mail and discovered a packet of paperwork Michael needed to fill out before tomorrow's VA appointments.

The kids and I went on a walk. We love the river trails along the McKenzie. 
Isn't this how every walks? 

Stacia took this - eagerly waiting for blackberries at the campgrounds

A face in the tree



A Vet in his natural habitat

We ended the night with Bocce ball

We didn't expect to be here the next few days, but we are always happy to visit family! LOL Alas, Bre and Bella were busy with appointments and Awana award night - but we'll catch up with them soon.