Friday, September 16, 2005

A Day

We managed to fill our “empty” day with lots of activity. I can’t count the number of times one of the children said, “I can’t believe it is Thursday already”. I think the counting down of days until the girls leave is on all of our minds.


Krista filled the day washing their car with the little ones. She also is literally plowing through every Nero Wolfe and Louis L’Amour book in the house. I think her goal is to read all that SA has to offer before she moves. I’m suspecting she will succeed.

Josiah, Jamin and Jared valiantly continue with school.

I spent the a.m. digging out my “normal clothes” and packing away maternity clothes. I ended up putting the fat clothes in the closet and the skinny clothes back in storage for a few more months. Hey – at least 4 weeks out I’m into the FAT CLOTHES I could still be in maternity clothes.

The cheap theater is showing Madagascar, a movie that the younger ones and I had not yet seen. We splurged and after we dropped Jamin at his pep rally the rest of us headed to the movies. I’m not sure the movie will ever be a classic but it was o.k. for the cheap theater. It did provide a cool spot for some mindless diversion.

Mike was able to get off work on time and join us for Jamin’s game tonight. We packed a picnic and headed for Water Valley. NO water in sight, BTW. Jamin’s team won 27 – 0. The game was called with 5 minutes left…due to lightening. We all noted that we’d seen no lightening. The team is really excited. They were last in their division last year….OK tied for last but they insist that they had more yards than the other team so the other team was REALLY LAST….but this year they are NUMBER ONE in their division (a division for private and small public schools). Jamin studiously ignored us in the stands as he waved last week and the coach asked him if he’d rather be sitting in the stands with us. Why I NEVER. We are all very proud of our newest little Texan who attended her first football game before she was a month old (one day before). I think that is a requirement to be a TRUE Texan…football in the blood and all.

I promptly fell asleep in the recliner while trying to get Stacia to fall asleep. Bre woke me up and took her and sent me to bed. She told me that Stacia was cooing and wide awake and I was sound asleep (think that means I was snoring?). I realize again how much different things like movies, football games, mall trips and even sleeping will be when the girls leave…they are jewels. We are all feeling more and more ready for the transition as it approaches.

Thursday, September 15, 2005

Josiah and Stacia reach an “understanding”

Josiah continues to delight us with his wry sense of humor. For instance, just this past week he was heard explaining the family facts of life to Stacia.

“Yes, Stacia, these 16 years I’ve lived have been preparing me just to be your servant.”

Stacia grunted.

He then told us that he’d tried to reach an understanding with her that “it isn’t always about her – maybe it should be about me!”

She just grunted.

Josiah and Stacia make faces at each other

Awakened by Alex

In the wee hours of this morning (no later than 5 a.m.) Alex struck. He raced into the girls' room, flipped the light on, threw back Krista's covers, grabbed her, began pulling her out of bed and said, "Stacia needs bottle! Stacia needs a bottle. Hurry!!" and raced out of the room to grab a bottle. Stacia was sleeping - finally.

He's a bit protective and it's very, very charming....except to the girls blinded by the early a.m. awakening.

Crystals, Hairstyles & Packing

I suppose I should say something educational since we ARE a homeschooling family.

We’ve been doing “light” school this week and last. Knowing this was the girls’ last week home and that last week was a Holiday week, I told the younger two that we would begin “full school” on 19 Sept. The older three boys were given one week’s worth of work to finish in both weeks. Believe me, that’s an accomplishment since we’ve had doctor’s appointments in both weeks, holidays, family outings and lots of activity.

We’ve enrolled Josiah and Jamin in North Atlantic Regional High School. This is an accredited private school in Maine that will take our transcripts from AK, will monitor our work at home and will award the boys’ credits. When they graduate they will be receive an official diploma from the school district in Maine. This was important to them. We have to run our curriculum by them, track our hours, save work to send them and PAY. The only real differences between them and the charter schools in AK is that 1. We pay THEM (they don’t pay us), 2. They allow us to work year round and 3. Though we have to send MORE work – we can send it all at the end of the year and don’t have the 9 week deadline crunches. When they called they were unfamiliar with Tapestry of Grace, the curriculum we use. I explained and then sent a list of credits and a web link for them to explore. They called back today to say that TOG looks excellent and that it will be a wonderful program for us to use. We don’t have to count hours if we do the program “as written”. I need to write out exactly what we ARE doing because I’m sure I won’t be doing it as written….I told them not to expect anything from me until the end of next week. I refuse to stress this week as we play with the girls.


The younger ones have occupied themselves this week with play dough, coloring and games….lots of games. One project we’ve been working on is growing crystals. Actually, this was Krista’s project with them. Their weeks of patience have produced some great looking purple crystals.

Bre, Krista, and I went and got haircuts yesterday. I asked for her to fix the gray that was showing up in my roots. She painted it – a new procedure for me. The funny thing is that she painted the roots a “mocha” color which looks an awful lot like red to me….so now I have red roots and such, with blonde and burgundy streaks….I’m telling you I won’t know what color my hair is by the time we move. I told the girls I was going to have to come up with better instructions for her than “cover the gray”. Purple and burgundy last time, red this time….meanwhile the sun continues to bleach it all lighter and lighter. The girls got very cute hair cuts. Krista got some flip up style in the back and they smoothed it all behind her ears but I’m not sure she is going to wear it that way. (I’ll try to add a picture or two when I upload this).

The girls (BreAnne and Krista) are spending lots of time loving on the little ones. We went and bought presents to have a big birthday/farewell party for the girls on either Saturday or Sunday. Shhh…don’t tell them but we are going to have a care bear theme…which is what their nursery was decorated in oh those many years ago. It’s true what they say…wait long enough and ANYTHING will come back into vogue.

Last night was a Protestant Women of the Chapel kickoff. We had 6 present. I did a little talk, we had a potato bar and sundaes and brownies. It sure made me miss friends in AK. It was fun to get out with a few ladies. Our median age was probably 50+ so those of you from Elmendorf can guess that we are a bit more sedate than ya’ all….no kidnapping at all…. I heard of the kick off at Holloman where you all line danced…..
Alex continues to amuse (and challenge) us. He likes to tell us to “be nice to him”…..but he doesn’t seem to quite understand the reciprocal nature of these things. Today when we got home from picking Jamin up from practice, he ran to the door to open it for us. Now, Alex is an escape artist and so we have a host of locking devices on the front door. The screen door has a lock, which he’s not discovered. The door has a deadbolt and a flip like lock at the top of it. When we rang the doorbell Alex came running. “I’ll let you in” and he began to make his way through all the fortifications. The silly lock on the screen door is the one that finally stopped him. I told him to go get a big boy…and he didn’t think that was needed at all. I began to laugh and he said, “Mom – you don’t think I’m funny”. He has a real thing about others laughing at him.


The girls are STILL packing. I’m doing much better than I expected to be doing at this point. We know that this is a natural transition but I must say it is our least favorite part of parenting to date.

The rest of the day has been filled with a trip to the Oral Surgeon for Krista. Her wisdom teeth have healed fine and she is set for the trip – teeth wise. We’ve also made our weekly trip to the Post Office, I’m really thinking of buying a postal scale and printing my postage off online. We are also scoping out the costumes in all the stores at this time of the year. We don’t celebrate Halloween but the younger kids love to play dress up. We’ve noted that we are very short on BOY costumes so have already decided to frequent the costume sales this year. Nothing real exciting...but that’s our day.

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

FAMILY FLAG FOOTBALL

5 SEPT 2005

This Labor Day the family took to the fields….all but Stacia and myself (still on bed rest).

We are always looking for fun games that the entire family can play. We’ve found kickball, frisby baseball and flag football to fit the bill and provide exercise as well.

Below are some pictures from the day; I did hear that one of the teams was “overly competitive” and the other one may have had “skewed perspectives”.

*NOTE I'm having trouble uploaing photos so I'll post the text of a couple of entries and try to edit them to add photos on another day. There are lots of family photos to upload to this entry. They are in my journal and look great.

Tuesday, September 13, 2005

De’Etta’s Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day

8 September 2005

I went to sleep with a baby in my arms and woke up shaped like a pretzel with cramps in my neck and shoulder. I stumbled into the bedroom at 5 a.m. hoping to catch a few winks and stubbed my toe on my antique hope chest. I gave up and took a shower...I hung my one pair of jeans that currently fit (my fat jeans) beside the shower, climbed in and didn't notice I'd left the curtain cracked open. Water sprayed all over my jeans and the floor. I could tell it was going to be a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.

At breakfast I was reminded that I had to take Krista to get 4 wisdom teeth pulled. I would not be able to make Jamin's football game (and I've been on bed rest and not made any) because I needed to observe Krista's recovery. Need I say more? It was a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.

I think I'll move to Australia.

I went to get a straw for Krista to sip fluid and we were OUT of straws. I went to make Jello and we were OUT of Jello. I went to make pudding and we were OUT of pudding. I had to go to Wal-mart. I could tell it was going to be a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.

As I pulled away from the curb I realized I needed to get gas before the boys drove to Garden City for the football game. I passed two gas stations selling gas at 2.89 because Wal-mart's gas is ALWAYS cheaper. Wal-mart was NOT cheaper today. The line was long, and the day was hot. It was a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.

I wonder what the price of gas is in Australia?

I arrived back home to discover that Krista's teeth had continued to bleed and she was now vomiting. Ugh. I hate vomit. Alex deleted the entry I was working on for the blog...all those lovely pictures GONE. At dinner time I burned the french fries.....a nice crispy charcoal state. It was a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.

I checked the prices for tickets to Australia and then I realized....it's all in your perspective. I'd not known I was having a bad day until one of the children informed me of this. Really, it had been a great day!

A friend that I'd known a couple of moves ago called...and what a treat it was to laugh together again. Email just doesn't quite fill the need on some days.

Being on modified bed rest, I was able to get up and go on an early morning walk. The stars were still out, Stacia enjoyed the stroller, it was a great time for prayer and exercise.

I've got a healthy three week old daughter. My blood pressure has stablilzed enough to allow me to be up and out of the house.

I got my china out of hawk - off of layaway and it is as pretty as I remembered. What a deal it was! I look forward to making enough friends in SA to be able to have a tea party with real CHINA by Christmas time.

I made Rice Krispy treats with Arielle and Nolan - thus becoming "mom of the year" in their eyes. They were so impressed this summer that Grandma Jan can MAKE Rice Krispy treats. I informed them that we could make them at home too....but trying to unpack etc I'd taken to buying them. You should have seen their eyes when I came home with cereal and marshmallows and told them we were going to MAKE some treats. It was even better when we got to send some to friends far away.

We were able to mail three packages to friends that are sure to bring a smile to THEIR faces.

When Bre accidentally hit the gas pedal instead of the brake, we didn't zoom into anything or anyone.
I was able to check out three current, hot of the press, latest volumes in three different cozy mystery series that I'm following.

Josiah melted my heart when he asked for Stacia and proceeded to feed, cuddle and chat with her. They've reached some interesting conclusions about life together.

The last of our school books arrived today.

We had an awesome family night tonight....

When you think of it - I don't think there is any place I'd rather be than West TX with this group of people.

It was an amazing, wonderful, awesome, very good day...and I think I'll stay right here where the Shepherd has led. (Phil 4:8; Ps 23)

Josiah’s Clean Bill of Health

Today, Sept 12, 2005, Josiah has FINALLY received a clean bill of health. He broke his wrist back in May while rough housing with his brother. This turned into quite an ordeal and we are all thrilled that he is finally completely released from the orthopedics’ care.

We celebrated by having his dinner of choice: Shepherd’s Pie, Garlic Bread, Salad, Pudding and Brownies/Cookies. Krista has taken to making homemade ice cream so we enjoyed that as well. We couldn’t find the celebration plate but will look for that before the next big shindig…..