Wednesday, May 30, 2007

Book Review: The Ministry of Motherhood - Questions

Gift of Inspiration Discussion Questions:

There are some great questions here. I am eager to comment on a couple of these, but in keeping with my desire not to squelch conversation I am going to refrain from commenting until others have begun to post on the entry - letting me know that readers are ready to discuss.

I do want to say that for questions 1 and 2 I would suggest you make this a matter of prayer and fasting....it's that important. I would suggest that you not get "stuck" here in the book - but that you realize that it may take a period of weeks to clearly discern the answers here. In other words pray, meditate, continue on and let this "marinate" or "simmer". Another idea - I bought journals for each of our children. I asked all to write a note or letter to each other on their birthdays - and I put notes in these too along the lines of the questions below....

1.For each child in your household, write out a list of characteristics (personality traits, skills, interests, etc) that you believe God can use for his purposes.

2. Referring to the lists you just made, write a letter to each child expressing what you see in him or her and affirming that God has a special place for that child in his kingdom purposes. Whether you share the letter with your child now or save it for a future time depends on your circumstances. Don't forget to commit this list to the Lord in prayer and specifically ask him for help in inspiring that child to use his or her gifts to help bring about God's kingdom.

3. Read Matthew 6:33. Consider the way you spend your time and your money. What does this say to your children about what is most important to you, and is this the message you want to send? In light of this verse, should a mother's children be her first priority?

4. Read Matthew 6:25-30 and Psalm 10:1. Then think of a time and place where you really felt the power and magnificence of God as displayed in the work of his creation. In the coming few weeks, be on the alert for opportunities to look, observe, ponder - and point out God's wonders to your children. Set a goal of saying, "Come, look!" at least once a day.

5. Read Matthew 9:36. Can you think of some fears or prejudices in your life or your particular culture that might keep you or your children from seeing people as Jesus did? (What kinds of people do you tend to shy away from or find it hard to care about?) What might help you overcome these attitudes?

I have far to much time to think about this. ::snort:: From here on out - Sally's quotes in normal font and color. My comments in alternate color. Easy.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Woohoo, I finally got my book. I'll read as much as I can this weekend and should be able to start commenting on Monday.

Jen in Az.

Lisa in Jax said...

O.k. I'm going to post about question #3. I'm not sure that I'm supposed to publish my letters or my kids gifts.LOL

3. My priority should be God. Ouch. My kids definitely come first in my house. Probably even before my dh. I don't think that I try to focus so much time and energy on my kids but they out-number us and it's hard to have time for anyone or anything else. This was a very convicting question for me. I NEED to refocus my time and energies but I also think that for this season, it's got to be this way. No way my baby's going to wait while I finish up my Bible study time.LOL

Lisa in Jax said...

4. I saw a lot of beauty while living in Miami. We spent a lot of time admiring God's handiwork. I need to spend more time outside so that we can see more beauty and the greatness of God. Of course, that's hard when it's 100 degrees outside.LOL

Lisa in Jax said...

5. I have a tendency to be too trusting and accepting. I guess if I was honest, I'd say other people's kids scare me the most. They have different ideals, exposure to things I don't want in my home, GERMS(lol), and different views on what is acceptable.

I can say that the very scary looking man who used to mow our lawn down in Miami used to make me a little nervous.lol

Lisa in Jax said...

3. More on #3, We have lived through God's awesome displays of strength and fury during hurricanes and I think it gave us all an appreciation and fear of the Lord. You just can't go through a hurricane without prayer.LOL We've seen many people who never pray, pray during a storm.