Wednesday, July 17, 2013

The Day that Lasted Forever


Tuesday - 16 July 2013 - the day that refused to end. ::snort::  The day that was 48 hours long. 

Michael and I managed 3 hours of sleep on Monday. We got up at 0430 and walked around the base.  

I posted on Facebook that I felt numb this morning. That feeling persisted...the day was surreal. 

We woke up kids, had breakfast, finished downloading iTunes things, zipped up the bags and checked out of Misawa Inn. 

We ran the receipt by housing so they will pay for our 5 days in lodging. We ran by the bank and closed our local accounts and exchanged yen. We filled up the van with gas and took it through the car wash. We wanted to take it off base for a really good detailed cleaning...but ran out of time.  Zander (Alex) loved using the power wash hose. 

We enjoyed a last lunch at the club with Akiko-san.  I had a great salad - my last meal for over 24 hours. Discussion turned to the "right" time to visit CA....March is in the lead as it will be a good time to visit AK as well....but Michael threw out Christmas and Stacia in total seriousness looked at Akikosan said, "August 16th is a good day." Stacia's birthday.  We didn't say goodbye - we said, "Matane!" Akikosan reminded us we ARE coming back.

We usually drive off base, check the gate in the rear view mirror and keep moving....but this PCS was different. We FLEW and we had an impromptu party at the airport. We'd seen so many people off at the airport in the past couple of months that we were surprised how many dear friends we DO still have in Misawa. ::snort::   Stacia was happy to see Mags and Asia. 

Alex and Colton got in some last minute wrestling....and Colton was chosen to take home the yen coins we simply didn't spend. Alex gave it a great effort...treating all to ice water from the vending machines.

Friend of my heart - Christina and Lawson

Molly, Gracie and Arielle

Ah - sweet memories

Me and  Jen (fellow Chaplain wife)

Me and a couple of my gals

Nolan and Jaycob helped me every single week this year in the pre-school PCOC room. A friendship grew as their ministry grew. What a great year it was.  See that little box....friends who didn't make it to the airport sent homemade pretzel bites - YUMMMO! It's a good thing I'd not sampled them before this point.

Michael and some guys  


Friends sent a GIANT box of cookies - and they were deemed amazing by all who sampled. Me and the Cookie Lady (Andrea). 



Still don't get this game

There were others who showed up after the main crowd...and each one was appreciated. Thanks.

Flying out of Misawa defines bittersweet. All was boring - which was fine. Arielle wins the award for plane sleeping. She stretched out in the aisle, had her head in my lap and her body across Stacia. Michael and Nolan had little boys behind them who kicked their seats continually while their Dad slept.  Five hours into the flight Michael asked me to switch seats with him. I now had Michael's seat in my lap and a kid kicking me from behind....and THEN he spilled his OJ and it splashed all over me. LOL

A word about the "special meal" option on the patriot...don't bother. My vegan options were Chicken, pasta with cheese OR...the little salads people left on their plates. ::snort:: I ate carrots I'd bought the day before wondering if this may happen.

Getting through customs was QUICK for those of us LEAVING the airport....We were chased down as we'd left the Nikon DSLR in an overhead bin.

For those of us flying on (the gals) it took 2.5 hours to get through customs and on through security. We were all tagged for "random" checks...and I didn't realize after swabbing my palms they wanted to check them out so I walked away...not a good move....which resulted in more personal encounters and more swabbing of palms. At one point I commented VERY LOUDLY...my 7 year old is alone trying to get all the bags off the belt....and some lovely fellow passengers helped out by standing near her and talking to her until Arielle was cleared.

We laughed on the airport shuttle as we were listening and responding to the Japanese announcements and ignoring the English. At one point I asked Arielle to read the flashing sign "Gato C desu" - Ah. "Dozo, dozo." And we laughed - I think it may be the last Japanese we hear for some time.

We noted the planes are NOT on time as often as they are in Japan. The waiting areas are LOUD. People do not use headphones with their movies and music....and they talk LOUDLY on  cell phones without even TRYING to find a secluded spot.

Arielle suffered overload as we waited in SEA and chose to sleep. LOL 

We had 20 minutes between our flight which landed in Portland and the one which would take us to Eugene.  As we raced to check in, I realized my ipad was left on the previous plane. The clerk ran to get it, we hopped on the plane and made it to Eugene before Michael, the boys and Yuuki. 

We were met at the gate by my parents, a dancing Bre and my brother, Nate. Krista showed up shortly and we waited for Michael. We went out to dinner with my family.....Heather, Nadia and Mikhail joined us...where I enjoyed a satisfying vegan meal. LOL 

Back at the room all fell asleep fairly early. I hit a second wind and was up until midnight. 

I woke up this a.m. at 10:30 a.m. and have been trying to rouse everyone else...it's now LUNCH time on WED and I'm ready to get out and see America.  Stacia is complaining her eye itches and waters....need to go check this out. 

I was evidently too tired after SEA to take any more photos. 

Choosing Joy!
©2013 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Monday, July 15, 2013

Matane, Japan!


Not Sayonara...Matane! See you later, Japan.  

I asked God to give me His heart for Japan. He answered by giving our family His heart for Japan. He reawakened our hearts to missions and changed our career plans to align us with His heart for Japan. We believe we will be back. 

We need to faithfully finish his call to minister in  the military community....two more years. We have no idea what doors will open or how we will return. Our latest, greatest plan is to come back and get a job at Pizza Hut so we have SOFA status (need that APO box). ::wink::  This is the Gherkin version of retiring and becoming a "Walmart Greeter." 

In the meantime, we have some research to do, a language to learn, some plans to discover....and a whole new set of friends and ministry partners to meet at Beale Air Force Base. 


I cannot adequately express God's faithfulness, the personal growth, the ministry growth we've experienced while living here these past four years.

I've learned to dance with God not only in the joyful seasons...but in the hard places - the vulnerable places,  where there is nothing to trust but God, Himself. He has proven faithful.


Dance...Dance...Dance...


I've learned to dance in the rain.

"Lord, through all our generations YOU have been our home." Ps 90:1 Our roots are deepest in Him and not a location. Our home is always with us. HE has been our home.....

Matane!

Choosing Joy!
©2013 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Song for Every Season....


Two of many songs which will always bring us back to Japan in our memories.....

This song was in my mouth often in the days after the Tsunami, before I saw this video... This song will always remind me of these days. The images still take my breath away. 


"If We've Ever Needed You" - Casting Crowns

Hear our cry, Lord we pray,
Our faces down, our hands are raised,
You called us out, we turned away, we've turned away.

With ship wrecked faith, idols rise,
We do what is right, in our own eyes,
Our children now, will pay the price,
We need Your light, Lord, shine Your light.

If we've ever needed You, Lord, it's now, Lord, it's now,
We are desperate for Your hand, we're reachin' out, we're reachin' out.

All our hearts, all our strength,
With all our minds, we're at Your fate,
May Your Kingdom come, in our hearts and lives,
Let Your Church arise, let Your Church arise!

If we've ever needed You, Lord, it's now, Lord, it's now,
We are desperate for Your hand, we're reachin' out, we're reachin' out, we're reachin' out

If we've ever needed You, Lord, it's now, Lord, it's now,
We're are desperate for Your hand, we're reachin' out, we're reachin' out,
If we've ever needed You, Lord, it's now, Lord, it's now,
We are desperate for Your hand, we're reachin' out, we're reachin' out

We need You now
Revive us now
We need You now






"Endless Hallelujah" Matt Redman
When I stand before Your throne
Dressed in glory not my own
What a joy I'll sing of on that day
No more tears or broken dreams
Forgotten is the minor key
Everything as it was meant to be

[Chorus]
And we will worship, worship
Forever in Your presence we will sing
We will worship, worship You
And endless hallelujah to the King

I will see You as You are
Love You with unsinning heart
And see how much You paid to bring me home
Not till then, Lord, shall I know
Not till then, how much I owe
Everything I am before Your throne

[Chorus]
And we will worship, worship
Forever in Your presence we will sing
We will worship, worship You
And endless hallelujah to the King

No more tears, no more shame
No more sin and sorrow ever known again
No more fears, no more pain
We will see You face to face
See You face to face

[Chorus x2]
And we will worship, worship
Forever in Your presence we will sing
We will worship, worship You
And endless hallelujah to the King

And endless hallelujah to the King
We'll sing
And endless hallelujah to the King


The Last Supper


We have yen to spend - because I heard so many stories of folks not having the yen to pay the businesses which show up at their house during their final inspection that I WAY overshot...and then Ms. Koishi gave us both our deposits and rent for the rest of the month back.

We'll have to go to the back tomorrow before the terminal - and I really WANTED to get some yummy maple bread and melon soda today too - maybe I'll fit a trip in in the a.m. Who am I KIDDING?????

In any event - we have yen to spend and Michael suggested Aburi An for our Last Supper. It was PERFECT. I love this place...Michael has felt in the past that you spend a lot of money for a tiny bit of food....the kids hadn't been....but tonight...perfection. Authentic atmosphere, yakiniku for those who eat it, lots of YUMMY salad and veggies for those of us who prefer that....tempura garlic, grilled veggies, SALAD....YUMMMO....

Nolan contemplates menu options....

What could be causing such consternation?

We'll miss these menus...bowels or uterus...hmmm....

Or maybe you'd prefer a nice side of chicken skin or tail? 

Choices are made and Stacia pushes the button to let the servers know we are ready to order. 

It was a GREAT meal...and the company was spectacular! 


Choosing Joy!
©2013 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Final Day in Japan


I sat with Jesus this morning and told Him I really needed to hear from Him as I faced this day - our final full day in Japan - for this season. 

"Even here...." Um....o.k. "even here..." and then I remembered that was a MOPS theme a couple of years ago....and how powerfully Psalm 139:9-10 had spoken to me during our WILD PCS to Japan (Click and Scroll down until you see "PCS of a Career" if you are unfamiliar with this story)....

"If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea, EVEN THERE your hand will guide me, your right hand will hold me fast."  Lay hold of me - hold on to me - metaphorically can mean to "settle in the land." God has surely settled us in this land....and I trust He will settle us in CA.

Even here - moving from a place we love...He is wise enough to lead us; He is strong enough to hold on to us....and so we RAN LIKE FOOLS TODAY!!!!

We ran a zillion errands.

I continue to download movies and tv shows....really should have done this when we had FAST Internet.....

We made time to savor the day....the scenery....and to sit with the reality of our emotions.

We checked in early at the AMC terminal. I guess they weren't going to do this today as the plane coming in to Misawa was late. When we showed up with 11 suitcases, 6 carry ons, 6 "personal items," 6 military ids, 5 passports, 4 water bottles and a beagle in a kennel.....they went ahead and let us check in. ::snort::   They said it will be much easier for them to do it NOW and it will certainly  make tomorrow much easier for us. There is concern the plane will be late leaving tomorrow...praying it isn't as it will affect plans further down the road from Seattle.

Nope - I don't think one more bag is going in there...

Nolan was surrounded by bags

Yuuki is wonderful. She happily jumped into her kennel....and was very well-behaved as we waited an hour for the guys to  be able to check us in. She DID seem to give us an incredulous look that said, " REALLY? WHAT IS THIS ABOUT? You drag me all the way out here, put me in a box, put me on a scale and now take me back to the doggie hotel? "

It is a HUGE relief to have all the checked bags OUT of our room. 

Next on our agenda was our traditional balloon release. This is a special family circle where we discuss the good and the bad of this assignment....the need to cherish and not cling...to forgive and release the hard, bad and ugly...before we move on.... To symbolize the end of the season, we each release a balloon. We began this when we left another place we loved - Alaska.  My WORD - Stacia looks so young at our balloon release in San Angelo four years ago; and our family was significantly larger on that day!




Some were reluctant to release....



We were FAR from base and flight lines.....and it was hard to drive away from our home.....so we stopped at the beach down the road....



Choosing Joy!
©2013 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Sunday, July 14, 2013

Just Keep Swimming


I think I may have hit the proverbial wall. I'm drained. I want to sleep - but I need to keep doing the next thing. 

Today was full of farewells. It's becoming quickly apparent  we really ARE moving. One day and a wake up.  

We had thought we'd go to the beach today - after the farewell picnic -  instead we decided to just keep swimming. When I picked Michael up tonight his office was empty - we brought stuff home and turned out the lights. 

Michael has taken the kids to VIKINGS for dinner - all you can eat meat you grill at your table. I opted to keep swimming. I'm trying to retrieve movies from "the cloud" so we can sync our devices before the plane trip. 

Our goal is to be packed tonight so we can check in tomorrow at the terminal....but I'm not so sure it will happen.
photo credit: Angel Kittiyachavalit via photopin cc

I'm pretty sure the anemia/D deficiency/hypothyroid thing is why I feel like simply crawling into bed...and I'm also fairly certain that isn't the answer. 

Almost there.....almost. The thing is -  I don't want "plane day" to arrive and yet I'm ready for the move to be over and for us to be settled in CA. 

Yep - hello, dear familiar wall. I know this will all look different in a few weeks. 

Meanwhile we are cherishing our memories here in Misawa and trying desperately not to cling. God is doing a new thing and our hearts will catch up with our mission.

Choosing Joy!
©2013 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...

Saturday, July 13, 2013

Luvin Japan ~ Instructional Signs


I have a long list I've yet to finish.....but today's love.....instructional signs....there are many types but the bathroom ones are the ones that make me smile the biggest. 

Some of these leave me going "What?"

Have seen this one often - and evidently - it's NEEDED! 

How to use the toilet seat....


Choosing Joy!
©2013 D.R.G.
~Coram Deo~
Living all of life before the face of God...