Rain Can't Dampen Our Day

My heart woke up this morning longing for and missing Josiah. Yes, we miss him every single day.  However, the emotions are more intense on some days than others. Ironically, I can trace this to several things about to happen, or having just happened, which I know Josiah would have LOVED to be a part of...in other words joy led to this morning's melancholy.  Once again, I'm learning to allow joy/grief...joy/sorrow to exist in the same space. It is sacred. God is good and God meets me so intimately in the place of honesty. 

Yesterday, many of us walked in the Bear Paw Parade on behalf of Jared's campaign for Alaska State Senate. Josiah was such a rock, one of those always cheering in the balcony of our lives, regardless of what we were attempting. He would love to be a part of Jared's race. He would have been in the midst of the parade with his big laugh, and quick comments. As I walked yesterday, I teared up a few times... and realized it wasn't a bad reaction to the rain...I was taking immense joy in the family all together supporting Jared, and yet I missed sharing the day with Josiah.  Yeah - dip netting plans are switching into high gear and that is another space Josiah filled with such joy. Much to feel and think through...

The day began EARLY. Michael left the house at 0700 to meet the guys in Eagle River. I got GG up and ready early. We had thought he would enjoy the parade, but it was raining, HEAVY, and it seemed best to have him stay home.  No one wants to be sick this close to fish camp. Arielle, Ellie and Charles arrived around 0845 to stay with GG.  One of my fun memories of the day is Charles bursting into the kitchen exuberantly declaring, "Grandma, I'm baaaack!" 

Nolan showed up around 0900. We grabbed rain ponchos, candy and the girls, Nolan and I headed to meet up with everyone else at the staging area for the parade. Our gps' were "somewhat helpful" in finding the staging area.  We eventually found everyone.  Larissa and Noah got back to town Friday night, and it was great to see them! 

Carrie ended up with the day off and she, Liv and Ellie (her niece) and Josi joined the parade. 

Carrie and Josi 📷by Carrie

This was Josi's first Bear Paw Parade - and her second parade to "walk" in in her short life. LOL 

Allie and Nolan were all able to join us for this parade. The rain ended up just not making much of an impact. LOL 

Nolan, Stacia and Allie form the umbrella brigade

Some of my gals!

Due to Krista's job she isn't allowed to walk in partisan parades. She DID meet us, stay on the sidelines, take some photos and enjoy lunch with us. She was back up if any of the kids got tired of the parade. 

Parade route 📷by Krista

📷by Krista

Such a great campaigner!

Jared's Bear Paw Team - 📷by Larissa

Mike - our fearless driver. 📷by Larissa

📷by Larissa

Nolan, Jamin, Stacia, Allie 📷by Larissa

📷by Larissa

We headed over to the after party at ACF. There were food trucks, a live band and fun. We arrived early and grabbed some chimis and pizza. Michael left with Jared to set up the parade sign in a gentleman's yard - along the busy route.  The girls and Nolan headed back to the valley. I went with Krista to the base. Jenni met up with me and we went and retrieved her car. I drove Joelle's fancy van back to her house. Jenni drove me back home and we visited a bit. 

I looked out the window and noted Danny with a wagon in the garden. LOL Cory was extending the height of my trellis as the peas are going crazy. The beans - not so much. I can't seem to figure out the secret of beans. They aren't doing well in the beds OR in the greenhouse.  Benny and Danny were excited to show me peas and zucchini. I knew both those were there but then they led the way to the greenhouse. I knew a bell pepper was growing but lo and behold. WHERE did our first sweet pepper come from. I had to send both home with Benny. He was so excited. Danny took home a loaf of sourdough. 

It was a great day and I know today will be too. It will be another day of learning how to authentically accept all life is just now...the joy filled and the grief laden.  

I saw a line of this song posted online...and the rest of the lyrics are instantly with me...Yes, I will make room for what Jesus is doing - when it's joyful, when its sorrowful, and when it's unexpected. 

Make Room 

Here is where I lay it down

Every burden every crown 

This is my surrender

Here is where I lay it down

Every lie and every doubt

This is my surrender

And I will make room for you 

to do whatever you want to

Shake up the ground of all my tradition

Break down the wall of all my religion

Your way is better

Grace Notes: 

• Fun in the rain at the parade. 
• Moments of time snatched from a busy weekend to be with Krista, Jenni and Joelle. 
• Arielle, Cory and family helping out on the home front in so many ways. 
• No need to water the garden. 

Paint Night with Sara - Girls Night Out!

Everyone had the day off work. Stacia arranged a paint night for us. She invited all the girls...but Larissa and Krista are still traveling, and Carrie was unsure how Josi would do at such an event.  We attended a Paint Night with Sara and Co in Wasilla. It was FANTASTIC. Sara and Lorri are great. We were happy that Arielle and Jenni were able to join Stacia, Allie and myself. 

It is past time for a girl's night out. The room is spacious, and they had plenty of room for the 5 of us in their class...six counting Ellie Rae. 

#girlstribe

Because, obviously, I cannot take a photo with my mouth shut! 

📷by Arielle

I was off to a rough start - but it got better! 

They were great with Ellie Rae. They bought her a little easel and canvas. 

Painting is hard work for Ellie & Bachan. 
📷by Arielle

Bachan and Ellie's finished paintings. I love her little canvas. Priceless memory we have with HER even though she won't remember it with us. LOL Note my painting was pretty respectable until we added all the fireweed. I should have stopped...who has seen fireweed as tall as a mountain???? It makes me laugh. 

📷by Arielle

It was a fun evening....and hey I have a new white elephant gift for the next bunco party. 

Arielle & Ellie, Allie, Me, Jenni, Stacia

I saw a painting with a stack of books and a cuppa tea on top...I want it...but I can't buy it...I have to go paint it. Hmm...maybe a fun winter event.  We left the paint shop and headed to Blaze pizza for dinner. 

I think we need to plan more girls' nights out. I miss these types of nights out; we certainly need to get in a lot of time with Krista before she moves next summer. 

Sequential Vortex

 Are you familiar with the concept of a sequential vortex? One sets out to complete a simple task, which invariably leads to unplanned consequences. Stacia set out to frame and hang some photos. The problem is that she shares a room and Allie had things that may need to be hung on the same wall.  She'd need to wait until Allie got home from work. 

At this point she focused on the "clutter" stacked along the wall which would receive the photos. She needed to declutter...but the stuff was going to go on the top bunk of the loft/cave bed she'd created. She didn't want to do that until there was plywood on the board. She'd been waiting for months for the plywood to materialize.  At this point she and I headed to Michael's garage in search of plywood that would fit. She HAD measured.  We hauled it into the house, asked Michael if we could use this peace of coveted, squirrelled away plywood. He agreed. We hauled it down the stairs, into their room and lifted it into place. 

I'm not sure HOW Stacia measured but the plywood was about 2 - 3 inches too long. I asked Michael if I should use a handsaw or the sawsall...he brought in a circular saw and took care of it. He then lifted it into place for us. 

At this point Stacia began fussing about chips of wood falling into her face while she sleeps. Since the quake of Northern Japan, she seems to worry about things falling onto her face while she sleeps. She decided she would need to cover the wood in fabric. 

We headed to what was created to be my "PHOTO closet" which had quickly morphed into a family "CRAFT closet." As I slowly opened the door skeins of yard, bags of fabric, old college projects and even a Christmas Tree cascaded out into the house at large! Clearly this closet had become the girls' overflow storage as I haven't worked on photos since we moved into the house in ::cough::  ::gasp:: 2017. 

Obviously, this led to organizing the closet....2 garbage bags of trash and 3 garbage bags for the thrift store later and we felt good about the closet. Allie came home from work as we were putting things back into the closet and sweeping up the mess. Stacia clued her in on the happenings. 

In the midst of cleaning the closet we found a piece of fabric Stacia deemed perfect to cover the plywood. Stacia got Michael's staple gun, we lowered the wood to the floor and attached the fabric. We then put it back up again. Done. 

Stacia moved the storage tubs she was storing to the top of the loft/cave bed. 

We took a break to grab a bit of sustenance. 

Finally, it was time to hang photos, that which began this afternoon long activity.  Typically, Michael does not want us hanging photos. He likes things measured and leveled and its easier to do it himself than see it "off" for the duration. I asked where his picture hanging kit was. He wasn't sure. He usually takes the bait and hangs things when he sees us looking for the kit - but not tonight. I suspect he decided he doesn't spend a lot of time in the girls' room and he could live with chaos on their walls.  We eventually laid all to be hung on the floor in a pattern and set too. 

A few hilarious shenanigans ensured at which point I activated my karate hands and settled things into a sane pattern of hanging. 

Not to fear the laughter and shenanigans continued. I love spending time with these girls. I am enjoying their summer "break." 

Not to worry, girls - I've got this! 

It works. Allie's artwork on the left and top. I believe it's her memorial hanging with Josiah and all our names at the bottom of the clock. Stacia's art and a Jane Eyre quote on the right. I would probably have spread them out to cover more of the wall - but it's THEIR room and they believe in a "box theory" of wall decorating. ::grin:: 

It's taken them awhile, but they are coming up with a room they both are happy with. I thought a carpet was in the works, but I believe they are having trouble finding one that will match the wall and their personal style. 

I was pretty sure having the closet organized would lead to better sleep - and possibly having this project done would help with that as well. 

Note: I have been doing far too much comfort eating the past months. I have extended grace to myself, but grace doesn't mean no boundaries. It's time to get the weight off. BUT I'm not going to hide from capturing fun family moments along the way. Fluffy people deserve fun and family members as well as teeny people. LOL 

Chugiak 4th of July Parade

 We were excited to participate in Chugiak's 4th of July parade. With it being a holiday weekend, and so many working (Carrie and Allie) or traveling (KrUke and Larissa and Noah) or ill (Nolan and Alex) we weren't sure how many would show up to walk in the parade. Quite a few...and we had a blast. 

All this excitement before the parade began! 

Stacia, Liv, Jamin, Jenni and Josi

Me, Jared and Michael 

Though I HAD brought the stroller and the car seat we found Josi was most content in Jenni's arms. Jenni carried her through the whole parade. I'd left the baby pack at home at Carrie's....oops.

Stacia and Liv 

Annie (BreZaak's daughter)

Gideon, Annie, Bella, Jojo  - Trudy rode in the stroller

Bre with four of her kids 

Suddenly, we were lining up and heading down the highway. It was fun to meet some who have been out knocking on doors with Jared since February. The pace was wild...everything from a slow walk to an all-out sprint. LOL 

Bella

Jared, Trudy and Jamin 

Liv enjoyed passing out candy 

Highlights of the parade for me was being out in Alaska, an online friend who called my name, gave me a hug and told me she's been praying for our family, hearing people cheer when they noted our truck and over and over hearing, "That's Jared" and "There's Jared." All that door knocking is paying off in face recognition. 

Running to catch up with the truck 

I was moved to tears at one point when someone yelled, "Go Goeckers," while others cheered. Honestly, walking through grief can feel very solitary and it was moving to remember we are part of a big community...even if you know...it's the political thing.LOL

Michael drove and was BUSY keeping an eye on our young runners.  I had a several ask for yard signs and a couple say theirs had been taken from their yard! WHAT? In idyllic Alaska? Some people asked if Jared was in the parade and wanted to talk to him.... 

It didn't take long until Jared was engaging with the PEOPLE and not simply walking in a parade....and it was great fun. 

Nick Begich (running for Congress) and Jared

Watching parades is fun, participating is even better.  I'm looking forward to the Bear Paw Parade on July 13th.  

A special thank you to Cory and Arielle. They stayed at our home and made the logistics much easier for Michael as I was already in Eagle River and unable to help get everyone out the door. The kids had a great day with GG, and Cory mowed our yard - took 5 hours. LOL 

Editors Note: Yes, I do usually keep our last name out of the blog, but it's becoming impossible to do so. I made an exception with this one.